Today, Mardi Winder welcomes Getrude Matshe, a truly remarkable guest whose story radiates resilience, empowerment, and the healing power of sharing. As an international speaker, author, three-time TEDx presenter, and founder of the Her Story Circle movement, Getrude has impacted hundreds of thousands of women worldwide, helping them find strength and community after major life challenges.

Getrude candidly discusses her experiences growing up in Zimbabwe, building a life in New Zealand, and twice facing the pain of divorce, including the emotional fallout and health struggles that followed. It was through this turmoil that she found the spark for Her Story Circle, a safe, supportive space for women to share the stories that shape them. She recounts how a simple Facebook post about starting over at fifty resonated with thousands of women globally, revealing the common challenges of isolation, loss, and the need for healing after a major life change.

Together, Mardi and Getrude explore the benefits of storytelling—not just as a tool for personal catharsis but as a lifeline for others navigating similar paths. They discuss important topics like the mental and physical health impacts of divorce, the challenges of rediscovering love, and the lessons learned from missteps in relationships. Getrude inspires listeners with her journey to international thought leadership, including how her TEDx talks and her unique approach to building community led to opportunities to lecture around the world and empower others to find their voices.

Getrude’s final message resonates: never regret your past, but use those experiences as stepping stones to growth and transformation.

About the Guest:

Getrude Matshe is an international speaker, celebrated author, and three-time TEDx speaker known for her radiant presence and inspiring mission to uplift others. A Rooney International Scholar and Philanthropy Consultant, she helps individuals discover their life purpose and unleash their full potential. She is the founder and Global Curator of the HerStory Circle and DiversityConnector Podcast, platforms dedicated to amplifying underrepresented voices.

With a background in IT and entrepreneurship, Getrude has launched successful ventures in medical recruitment, real estate, tourism, talent, and film—providing ethnic extras for films like King Kong and Avatar. As a “book writing midwife,” she mentors aspiring authors to share their stories with the world. She has spoken at the United Nations and on global stages, weaving wisdom as storyteller, poet, filmmaker, and cultural ambassador. A proud mother of three and grandmother, Getrude is deeply committed to women’s empowerment and generational legacy.

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To connect with Getrude :

Website: www.HerStoryCircle.com

LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/getrude-matshe-1a65a614/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HerStoryCircleTV

About the Host:

Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

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