What if one agreement could shift how you move through perceived limitations, everyday stuckness, and painful patterns in your relationship? Krista and Will dive into their relationship agreement, “To Always Find Possibility.” Whether it's health issues, career crossroads, or relational tension, this simple yet powerful commitment has helped them stay connected, creative, and forward-moving—even when things seem hopeless. Tune in for real-life examples, practical insights, and an invitation to transform how you face challenges with your partner.

“The Art Of We” podcast with Krista Van Derveer and Dr. Will Van Derveer

(00:00) The origin of the agreement

(02:30) What “always find possibility” means

(05:45) Why this agreement applies to every area of life

(08:50) Real-life example: Krista’s health scare

(12:20) Bypassing or real possibility?

(14:45) When one partner can't see the way through

(17:40) How this agreement affects parenting, career, and decisions

(20:55) Why this isn’t just toxic positivity

(23:45) What to do if your partner doesn’t think this way

(27:00) How agreements like this turn into anchoring tools during crisis

(30:00) Addressing polarization

(32:15) The power of staying in the conversation

(34:00) An invitation for listeners

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Resources Mentioned:

• Our Top 10 Relationship Agreements

• The Art Of We Website
• The Art of We Instagram
• Integrative Psychiatry Institute: Psychedelic Therapy Training

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