Welcome back to the podcast, men! In the last episode, we wrapped up our fathers and daughters series! Today we’re going to shift gears and talk about fathers and sons.

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Fathers and Sons: Imparting Wisdom, Work Ethic, and Resilience

Welcome back to the podcast, men! We’ve just wrapped up our series on Fathers and Daughters, and today we’re kicking off a brand-new conversation: Fathers and Sons.

While many of the same parenting principles apply to both sons and daughters, Scripture teaches that God created men and women with unique roles and responsibilities. That means our parenting approach toward sons should reflect those God-given distinctions.

Whether your sons are still at home or fully grown, this conversation is for you. If you’re a grandfather, these principles still apply as you influence your grandsons or encourage your adult sons in their own fatherhood journey.

Impart Wisdom Intentionally

One of the most important roles a father plays is helping his son pursue wisdom and pursue God. It’s not enough to simply model wisdom; we need to have direct, intentional conversations about it.

Proverbs 3:1-6 (NLT)

"My child, never forget the things I have taught you. Store my commands in your heart... Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding."

Solomon—the wisest man who ever lived—understood the importance of passing wisdom to the next generation. As dads, that’s our responsibility too.

Whether you’re naturally talkative or more reserved, God calls every father to teach. This doesn’t mean you need to be a Bible scholar or a polished speaker. Just be intentional.

Deuteronomy 6:6-9 (NLT)

"Repeat them again and again to your children. Talk about them when you are at home and when you are on the road, when you are going to bed and when you are getting up."

Practical ways to do this include reading the Bible together, listening to Bible-based podcasts, or using tools like the resources at pursueGOD.org.

Proverbs 3:13-15 (NLT)

"Joyful is the person who finds wisdom... Wisdom is more precious than rubies; nothing you desire can compare with her."

A wise son will experience more joy and fewer regrets—whether it’s about money, relationships, or making wise life choices.

Teach Them to Work

Fathers must teach their sons the value of hard work. Work is not a punishment—it’s part of God’s design for men.

Genesis 2:15 (NLT)

"The Lord God placed the man in the Garden of Eden to tend and watch over it."

Before sin entered the world, God gave Adam meaningful work. This shows that work is not a result of the fall—it’s a fundamental part of being a man.

Unfortunately, in today’s culture, too many men are disengaged from the workforce. In August 2024, 6.8 million American men between ages 25 and 54 were neither working nor looking for work.

As fathers, it’s our job to push back against this trend. Sons need to learn that work isn’t just about earning a paycheck—it’s about fulfilling their God-given purpose.

Colossians 3:17 (NLT)

"And whatever you do or say, do it as a representative of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through him to God the Father."

Whether it’s mowing lawns, washing cars, or helping with household chores, let’s teach our sons that work is good, meaningful, and God-honoring.

Help Them Embrace Mistakes as Part of Growth

One of the biggest challenges for young men today is fear of failure. Many sons grow up paralyzed by indecision because they’re afraid of making mistakes.

That’s why fathers must teach their sons that mistakes are part of life—and part of growth.

Romans 8:28 (NLT)

"And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them."

This verse doesn’t just apply to things outside our control. It also applies to the consequences of our own bad decisions. God can redeem even our biggest blunders.

Proverbs 16:9 (NLT)

"We can make our plans, but the Lord determines our steps."

Making plans is important, but we should hold those plans loosely and trust God with the outcome.

1 Timothy 1:15-16 (NLT)

"This is a trustworthy saying... 'Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners'—and I am the worst of them all."

Paul’s testimony reminds us that no mistake is too big for God’s grace.

Proverbs 10:8 (NLT)

"The wise are glad to be instructed, but babbling fools fall flat on their faces."

Are you modeling grace when your son fails? Are you affirming your love for him even when he makes mistakes? Don’t let perfectionism or criticism steal your son’s courage.

Remember: If it was easy, everyone would do it.

Final Challenge

Fathering sons takes intentionality and biblical focus. Whether your son is 5 or 35, ask God to help you speak wisdom, model work ethic, and extend grace when mistakes happen.

This week, find one specific way to engage with your son (or grandson) on one of these topics.

You’re building into the next generation of godly men.