EF#62: Infertility Awareness Week: My Unspoken Fertility Struggles & Lessons of Support for Your Loved Ones
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In Episode 62, I dive into the emotional reality of infertility during UK Infertility Awareness Week. Join me as I share an impromptu recording on the beach of my personal feelings around my journey through both primary and secondary infertility spanning nine years, including my endometriosis diagnosis, fertility treatments, and the emotional toll this journey has taken. I also provide valuable guidance for friends and family members who want to support loved ones experiencing fertility challenges but may not know how to approach these sensitive conversations.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:My personal and raw story of nine years trying to conceive
The emotional impact of both primary and secondary infertility
The financial and relationship challenges that come with prolonged fertility struggles
How ageism affects the fertility journey
The importance of following your gut instinct when seeking treatment
Just listen without trying to "fix" their situation
Avoid sharing success stories of people who got pregnant through various means
Check in regularly, but respect boundaries if they need space
Be mindful about sharing pregnancy news or complaining about your children
Don't ask for updates about their fertility journey - let them share when ready
Remember dates that might be difficult (due dates from losses, anniversary of failed treatments)
Include them in activities even if other pregnant people or children will be there
Avoid asking "Do you have children?" as a first question when meeting someone new
Never respond with silence when someone shares their fertility struggles
Don't use phrases like "just the one?" about family size
Remember, if you're going through infertility, you are not alone. This episode serves as a reminder that while infertility may be common, the emotional journey is deeply personal, and support from understanding friends and family can make all the difference.
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