Do you have a childhood BFF, or a group that has stuck together through thick and thin? Or are your friendships more transient and changing?

In this episode,''The Year of Being 70 Ep35: BFFs and Frenemies - 7 Decades of Friendship'' childhood friends and co-hosts Lucy and Lisette have an open and thoughtful discussion about the nature of friendship - how it evolves over a lifetime, the different types of friends we have, and the challenges of maintaining deep connections as we grow older. They share their personal experiences and insights, exploring themes of belonging, energy levels, and finding one's own path in relationships.

Key Highlights

• Lisette and Lucy reflect on the idea of having a "circle of friends" versus more individualised friendships, and how each suits their personalities differently.

• They discuss the bittersweet experience of losing touch with childhood friends, and the mixed feelings that can come with reconnecting later in life.

• The hosts explore how work relationships can sometimes become the closest friendships, and the importance of finding common interests and shared experiences.

• Lisette shares her perspective on breaking away from a suffocating "student group" friendship, and the courage it took to define her own boundaries.

• Lucy expresses her comfort in considering her sons and their partners as some of her closest friends in adulthood.

• Both hosts acknowledge the challenge of feeling "out of tune" with certain social groups, and the value of surrounding oneself with people who energise and inspire.

Why You Should Listen

This episode offers a relatable and nuanced look at the evolution of friendship through the lens of two old friends looking at life from the age of 70.

Lucy and Lisette's candid conversation provides insights into the complexities of maintaining meaningful connections, the importance of self-awareness, and the joy of finding kindred spirits at every stage of life.

Whether you're reflecting on your own friendships or simply curious about the experiences of others, this episode is sure to resonate and encourage thoughtful introspection.

Join The Conversation

Do you have lifelong friends, a school bestie who is still your go-to friend, or an inner circle who have known each other forever? Or have you experienced toxic friendships or friends from your past you have nothing in common with any more? Are your work mates your best mates, or is your family your friendship group?

Tell us in the comments – we’d love to hear your experiences, thoughts and views.

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