In this episode of GET IN, I sit down with Sarah Marshank—visionary author of Redefining Being Selfish: My Journey from Escort to Monk to Me, and founder of Selfistry—to explore how the body and life are not obstacles to awakening, but profound gateways to becoming an empowered, evolving spiritual being.

Together, we dive into what it truly means to live in alignment with the feminine and masculine energies of today’s world. Beyond outdated definitions, toward a new, integrated vision of wholeness. We reflect on what it means to be a woman in this time: not just empowered, but fluid, receptive, and fierce in her devotion to change, to embodiment, and to co-creating a world rooted in presence and possibility.

Sarah shares wisdom from nearly a decade in solo retreat—not in a monastery, but through embodied, everyday inquiry. Her journey reminds us that evolution isn’t about escape or perfection—it’s about meeting ourselves exactly as we are and choosing to grow with grace. Her body became her teacher, her temple, and her map for navigating the spiritual terrain of being human.

In this soul-stirring conversation, we talk about:

• Embodied spirituality as a way of life

• Embracing the dance of feminine and masculine within us all

• The sacredness of relationships and our evolving roles

• Radical self-acceptance and the power of not knowing

• Creating a new empowered version of "self" to meet the challenges of our time

This episode is a call to presence. To live and lead from wholeness. To honor change as sacred. And to courageously step into a new way of being—one that makes the world better through the integrity of our embodiment and the curiosity of our becoming.

Learn more about Sarah Marshank:

Selfistry

Read Sarahs's books:

Selfistry: A Guide to Embodying Timeless Spiritual Wisdom

Redefining Being Self-ish: My Journey from Escort to Monk to Me

Learn more about Debbie Rosas:

www.debbierosas.com

www.nianow.com

www.niaondemand.com