In this episode, Jes and Den unpack the mantra that helped Jes survive the hardest parts of chemo: “I don’t want to, but I get to—because some folks don’t get to.” What started as a way to get through treatment became a perspective shift that still resonates today. Jes shares the origin of this mantra and how it helped her reclaim power in moments that felt impossible. Den reflects on how gratitude, when rooted in truth instead of pressure, can hold space for grief and resilience at the same time. Together, they talk about the difference between choosing perspective vs. forcing positivity, and how phrases like this evolve with us over time. It’s real, reflective, and full of those quiet “me too” moments you only get from people who’ve lived it. 🎧 Whether you’re in the middle of treatment, navigating chronic illness, or just having a hard week—you are so seen. And you don’t have to do it alone. 🫶 Join our free Support Circle—a private forum for people living with cancer and chronic illness. Find connection, community, and people who just get it.👉 morethanadiagnosis.org