In this episode of Rooted Tales by Rooted Owl, host Jeffrey Mendelson sits down with veterinary behaviorist Dr. Christopher Pachel, founder of Animal Behavior Clinic and co-owner of Instinct Dog Behavior & Training. Together, they explore a paradigm shift in dog training: from dominance and discipline to curiosity, empathy, and communication.

Dr. Pachel shares his journey from traditional training methods to a more compassionate, science-informed framework grounded in behavior, biology, and trust. Through powerful insights and real-life examples, he reveals why dogs don’t operate on rigid pack structures—and how “alpha dog” myths often do more harm than good.

From reshaping how we approach separation anxiety to rethinking the role of medication in training, this conversation dives deep into the emotional lives of animals and what it truly means to be a facilitator of “aha” moments for both pets and their people.

Key Lessons Covered in This Episode:

Why Pack Leader Thinking Is Outdated:

Dr. Pachel explains how domestic dogs don't live in strict social hierarchies—and why traditional dominance-based approaches often fail to meet a dog's actual needs.

The Empathy-First Framework That Works:

Rather than jumping to control or correction, Dr. Pachel teaches us to lead with empathy, educate with intention, and use correction sparingly—if at all.

Separation Anxiety & the Science of Comfort:

From short departures to remote-controlled treat dispensers, Dr. Pachel breaks down how to teach dogs to feel safe when home alone—without relying on fear or guesswork.

When—and Why—Medication Matters:

Whether it’s pharmaceuticals, pheromones, or supplements, Dr. Pachel outlines how medication can reduce panic and create space for learning—not as a crutch, but as a bridge to better behavior.

Why Getting a Second Dog Might Help (But Not Cure):

He weighs in on the pros and limitations of adding another dog to the household—and how it may mask, but not resolve, underlying anxiety.

Key Takeaways:

✅ Leadership doesn’t mean control—it means communication

✅ Behavior change starts with understanding, not punishment

✅ Dogs aren’t trying to dominate you—they’re trying to feel safe

✅ Emotional support is just as important for pets as it is for people

✅ Modern dog training blends science, heart, and skill

Listen Now:

If you’ve ever questioned the “alpha dog” mindset—or want to build a more thoughtful, effective relationship with your pet—this episode is a must-listen. Dr. Pachel offers a refreshingly humane and evidence-based path forward.

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Connect with Dr. Christopher Pachel:

• Christopher Pachel’s Profile linkedin.com/in/christopher-pachel-dvm-dacvb-cabc-1017175
• Websites: animalbehaviorclinic.net (Veterinary Behavior Practice) facebook.com/drpachel (Facebook)www.drpachel.com(company)

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