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For the first time ever, Anthony Obey opens up about his deeply personal journey from a broken childhood to becoming an intentional homeschooling father of five.
In this raw and vulnerable episode, he shares the painful story of his parents' divorce at age 5, the culture shock of transitioning from a safe private school to a chaotic public school environment, and how he transformed from a lost young man into a devoted father who is passionate about God, family, and homeschooling.
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In this episode, you'll discover:
The defining moments that shaped Anthony's parenting philosophy:
- The heartbreaking moment at age 5 when he promised his father he would "do better" during the divorce
- How being placed in the "B-13 Convicts" class in 5th grade exposed him to gang culture and violence
- The transformation from victim to "wolf" as a survival mechanism in a hostile school environment
- His salvation experience at 16 through reading "Divine Revelations of Hell"
- The pivotal "puff of smoke" moment that changed his life's trajectory forever
Key Takeaways
- Why a strong marriage is the foundation of good parenting and family stability
- How environmental factors can dramatically impact a child's development and worldview
- The critical importance of fathers being present and involved in their children's daily lives
- Why homeschooling allows parents to be their children's primary influence instead of culture
- How intentional parenting can break generational cycles of dysfunction
Powerful Quotes from This Episode
"I have personally changed 99% of all of the diapers of our five kids."
"I didn't want to hurt our new baby boy the way I had been hurt."
"My life is like this puff of smoke. It's here for the moment, and then it's gone into eternity."
"I learned that I never actually had to run with the John Benders of the school system."
"Parenting is the number one indicator of the success or failure of their children."
The Transformation
Anthony's story demonstrates how divine intervention can completely redirect a life. From being influenced by rap culture, gang mentality, and negative role models, he experienced a dramatic 180-degree transformation that set him on a path to meet his future wife in college and build the intentional family he always dreamed of.
Perfect For You If...
* You've experienced childhood trauma or family dysfunction
* You're questioning whether traditional school environments are safe for your children
* You want to be your children's primary influence rather than letting culture shape them
* You're seeking financial freedom to live out your family values
* You believe in the power of intentional, present parenting
What's Next
In upcoming episodes, you'll hear how Anthony and Crystal's stories converged in college and how they built a business that generates six figures while working only 15-20 hours per week—giving them the lifestyle freedom to homeschool their five children.
Take Action
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This episode reveals the deeper "why" behind the Homeschool Money Makeover program—and why Anthony and Crystal are so passionate about helping families afford the homeschool lifestyle. Your transformation story could be next.
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