Finding Her Voice: Autism, Labels, And Light
Self-Care Solutions Podcast - Educating Women on the Tools, Skills, and Secrets of Self-Care
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A reconnection led to a revelation: Danielle grew up on the spectrum, carrying a stack of 1980s labels that never quite fit. What unfolds is a candid, moving journey from “severely learning disabled” on paper to leading Juliet on stage, powered by a mother who turned library castoffs into a custom education—vinyl records, tapes, storyboards, and claymation. We walk through the early hints of gifted storytelling, the painful mismatch of reading groups and resource rooms, and the moment a teacher listened closely enough to hear the logic in a “snake” answer and name it for what it was: precision.
The middle school years bring the hard truths many families recognize but rarely hear out loud—bullying that doesn’t stop at the bell, sensory overload that erases basic body cues, and a support system that groups neurodivergent learners with disruptors. Danielle explains what masking costs and how depression can hide behind good grades and a brave face. Then comes the pivot: a mentor’s nudge toward Romeo and Juliet, a Walkman-fueled audition strategy to outsmart dyslexia, and a freshman Juliet that filled an auditorium and rewrote the narrative. A handwritten note from a classmate who knew her history lands like a benediction, honoring the path from resource rooms to Shakespeare.
We don’t shy away from the crisis either—the night that ended in the ICU and the choice that followed to build coping tools that fit her nervous system. Along the way, we lift up the people who made the difference: a mother who taught to the brain she saw, teachers who caught the spark, and a community that applauded the work, not the myth. The takeaway is clear and hard-won: we are not the label. If you’re a parent, educator, or anyone who loves a neurodivergent kid, you’ll leave with practical insight—use audio and movement when print fails, expect unseen load from masking and noise, celebrate mastery loudly, and ask what’s too bright or too fast before asking what’s wrong.
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Guest: Danielle "Elley" Linton of Jack and Pickles Amusements -
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Topic: Power on the Spectrum
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Educating Women on the Tools, Skills, and Secrets of Self-Care...
Chapters
1. Reconnecting And A Hidden Childhood Diagnosis (00:00:00)
2. Early Signs, Media Obsession, And Milestones (00:05:20)
3. Kindergarten Struggle And A Mother’s Method (00:12:30)
4. First-Grade Advocacy And Testing (00:18:45)
5. The Labels, The IEPs, And Identity (00:25:10)
6. Stage Debut And Community Validation (00:31:40)
7. Middle School Bullying And Sensory Overload (00:39:20)
8. Depression, Missed Cues, And Resilience (00:46:50)
15 episodes