Manage episode 521935476 series 3704148
In this episode, we explore why Americans are so uncomfortable with silence — and how we've developed an entire ritual to fill it: small talk.
Whether it's an elevator ride with a coworker, a waiting room with strangers, or a brief encounter in a grocery store line, Americans feel compelled to say something. About the weather. About traffic. About anything that fills the quiet.
But why? What is it about silence that feels so threatening in American culture? And what does our constant need to fill space with words reveal about how we understand connection, friendliness, and social competence?
We unpack the scripts of small talk, the cultural forces that make silence feel like failure, and the loneliness of living in a culture where people talk constantly but rarely say anything real.
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