In this episode of Socializing Security, Brian and Milou dive into the messy, often misunderstood reality of working through the holiday season. From cultural expectations to the pressure of Q4 deadlines, they break down why this time of year feels especially heavy for consultants, founders, and global teams.

They unpack the importance of boundaries (and why they’re so hard to set), how communication shifts when you’re working across time zones, and why emojis aren’t unprofessional — they’re a relationship-building tool.

The episode closes with a “Tell Me Something Good” segment, where both hosts highlight small wins, personal growth moments, and what’s next for the podcast.

Takeaways

• Holiday workloads hit differently — especially in consulting and startup life.

• Cultural norms shape how people view time off, holiday expectations, and urgency.

• Boundaries aren’t just healthy; they’re essential for preventing burnout.

• “Follow the Sun” can be a superpower for global teams when used intentionally.

• Remote teams require clarity — communication styles vary wildly across regions.

• Emojis and tone markers can humanize digital communication.

• Planning ahead (even lightly) reduces Q4 chaos.

• Ending on positive stories helps reset mindset and reinforces purpose.

• Respecting global holidays builds connection and psychological safety.

• Sustainable work-life balance is a long game, not a seasonal fix.