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What would happen if we responded to bullies with kindness instead of confrontation? Kim Fraser's groundbreaking approach turns traditional anti-bullying strategies upside down, with remarkable results!
Growing up in the Bronx, Fraser experienced bullying firsthand and once resorted to faking an epileptic seizure to escape her tormentors. Today, as an author, former teacher, and counselor, she's developed a revolutionary method that disarms bullies through unexpected compassion. In her book "Chandler the Handler: You Can't Bully Me," her protagonist responds to bike-stealing bullies by inviting them to a baseball game—his treat. This "shock syndrome" creates a pathway to transformed relationships and returned property.
Fraser's insights stem from 18 years teaching in diverse communities, where she consistently observed children defaulting to physical defense against bullying. Her approach recognizes something deeper: bullies act from profound insecurity and devaluation, desperately seeking recognition through negative means. By appealing to their innate human desire for belonging, Fraser's method addresses the root cause rather than just the symptoms.
The conversation explores how bullying extends beyond schoolyards into workplaces through subtle intimidation, looks, and power dynamics. Fraser emphasizes that parents establish the foundation for handling conflict, with children mimicking behaviors witnessed at home. Her upcoming short film aims to spread this message through classrooms and streaming platforms, creating an alternative to the violence dominating media.
Perhaps most powerful is Fraser's reminder that "where you live is not who you are"—wisdom from her fifth-grade teacher that propelled her beyond circumstance. Connect with Kim Fraser through LinkedIn to learn more about implementing her strategies for creating safer, kinder communities.
You are welcome to connect to Ms. Kem Frasier through her social media platforms:
Website: https://deniseproductions.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kem.frasier/reel/DIA6B4mAk5A/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kem-frasier-a0012173
Chapters
1. Introduction to Kim Fraser and Chandler (00:00:00)
2. Kim's Anti-Bullying Approach (00:04:12)
3. Personal Experiences with Bullying (00:08:32)
4. Classroom Management and Parental Involvement (00:17:47)
5. Counseling Approach and Mind Over Matter (00:26:38)
6. Spreading the Anti-Bullying Message (00:35:59)
7. Kim's Inspiration and Closing Thoughts (00:42:10)
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