804: Redefining Courage and Taking Up Space with Speaker and Author Candace Doby

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Candace Doby is the founder of the Can-Do Company — which is a speaking and coaching business dedicated to helping emerging leaders activate personal courage in order to perform to their potential in work and life. They’ve helped over 25,000 emerging leaders across the U.S. conjure their courage and take worthwhile risks … risks like speaking up with an unpopular opinion in a meeting of like minds and bringing their whole, real self to every personal and professional space they occupy.

In this episode, recorded during my LinkedIn Live conversation with Candace, she talks to us about redefining courage and taking up space. Her new book, "Cool Girl's Guide to Courage" is available now!

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822: How to Overcome Complex Shame with Dr. Zoe Shaw 40:02

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On this episode of the Support is Sexy podcast, I speak to my brilliant friend Dr. Zoe Shaw, author of the upcoming book— Stronger in the Difficult Places— about what she calls Complex Shame. Dr. Zoe defines Complex Shame as "a hidden emotional wound many women carry from childhood or relational trauma." Dr. Zoe Shaw is a licensed psychotherapist, motivational speaker, podcast host of Stronger In The Difficult Places , relationship coach and fitness fanatic. She is a mom to 5, and is passionate about helping women overcome complex shame and find strength in difficult relationships, including that sometimes difficult relationship with themselves. And let me tell you, we go deep into my own Complex Shame on this episode, which I didn't even realize I was wrestling with! You'll learn: What is Complex Shame? How might it impact you? How do you realize it? Where does it come from? How do you heal it? How do you forgive yourself? Learn more about Dr. Zoe Shaw at www.drzoeshaw.com . PRE-ORDER Dr. Zoe's upcoming book Stronger in the Difficult Places on Amazon . Support is Sexy podcast host Elayne Fluker is an ICF-trained Executive Coach for high-performing women who are transitioning to their next level. Her clients have worked for organizations such as Pfizer, Amazon, Expedia, Bain & Company and more. She is creator of Next Level Navigator -- a dynamic 3-month coaching program for women leaders. Elayne is also an author , speaker, and facilitator of leadership development workshops for Fortune 500 companies and organizations. Her LinkedIn Learning courses have been attended by more than 65,000 students. Click here to get in touch with Elayne.…

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821: How to Deal with a Difficult Boss 17:02

5 weeks ago17:02

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As an executive coach, speaker and facilitator of leadership development workshops, I lean into my specialty around Soft Skills -- which are non-technical skills such as empathy, emotional intelligence, adaptability and resilience -- and teach on the topic in diffferent forums. One place I teach is as an instructor is on LinkedIn, where I have over 78,000 followers and where one of my courses on "How to Deal with a Difficult Boss" has surged to over 15,000 students in the past couple of weeks. I have lots of theories on why that surge is happening (long story short: folks are stressed, frustrated, under pressure and on edge), but one thing I know for sure, this an area where people need support. And no matter if you’re climbing the corporate ladder, navigating leadership in a startup, or transitioning into executive roles — at some point, chances are high that you, too, will encounter a boss who… let’s just say, challenges your peace and professionalism. So on this episode of the Support is Sexy podcast, I go deeper on insights from that course "How to Deal with a Difficult Boss" and share 7 powerful soft skills that will help you not only survive a difficult boss — but lead yourself through the experience with confidence, clarity and, of course, support. To connect with me on LinkedIn: go to https://www.linkedin.com/in/elaynefluker/ -- Support is Sexy podcast host Elayne Fluker is an ICF-trained Executive Coach for high-performing women who are transitioning to their next level. Her clients have worked for organizations such as Pfizer, Amazon, Expedia, Bain & Company and more. She is creator of Next Level Navigator -- a dynamic 3-month coaching program for women leaders. Elayne is also an author , speaker, and facilitator of leadership development workshops for Fortune 500 companies and organizations. Her LinkedIn Learning courses have been attended by more than 62,000 students. Click here to get in touch with Elayne.…

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820: How to Network and Build Authentic Connections with WomenTech Network Founder Anna Radulovski 52:19

6 weeks ago52:19

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Anna Radulovski is author of Chief in Tech: How Women Are Breaking the Silicon Ceiling and Leading with Impact and she is the Founder and CEO of WomenTech Network — a global community with 150,000 members across 179 countries. WomenTech Network provides mentorship, career development, and networking opportunities connecting women with industry leaders at top companies like Amazon, Microsoft, and IBM. Anna also hosts host the Women in Tech Global Conference and the Chief in Tech Summit, which is coming up on May 20, 2025. The summit brings together thousands of executives and professionals to discuss leadership, innovation, and diversity in tech. (GET 15% OFF THE Chief in Tech Summit / Global Conference tickets or annual membership WITH THE CODE: SUPPORTISSEXY at https://shop.womentech.net/ ) On this episode of the Support is Sexy podcast, Anna and I dive deep into some of the smart and simple ways for you to establish authentic connections — whether you’re connecting for a new job or an investor for your business. From LinkedIn, to raising your visibility and influence, to power networking through shared values and so much more, there are many different avenues for building your support network. -- Support is Sexy podcast host Elayne Fluker is an ICF-trained Executive Coach for high-performing women who are transitioning to their next level. Her clients have worked for organizations such as Pfizer, Amazon, Expedia, Bain & Company and more. She is creator of Next Level Navigator -- a dynamic 3-month coaching program for women leaders. Elayne is also an author , speaker, and facilitator of leadership development workshops for Fortune 500 companies and organizations. Her LinkedIn Learning courses on soft skills, emotional intelligence and finding the right executive coach have been attended by more than 45,000 students. Click here to get in touch with Elayne. --- So Now What? Are you a woman who has recently been laid off? Are you worried about being laid off? If so, you are not alone. Layoff anxiety is weighing on the minds of millions of working women. And though hope and prayer offer solace, they are not a substitute for support. You need a community that offers a place where you can be honest about what you're feeling and gain access to experts who can provide guidance to help you navigate these challenging times. If this is you and you're wondering what to do next, join my networking and empowerment group: So Now What? at sonowwhat.net Be a part of a supportive community of women Get real about what you're feeling and experiencing at this time. Have access to coaching from me through conversatiosn facilitated within the group. Hear from experts who share crucial insights on topics that matter most to you. Learn tips on how to maintain your mental and physcial weelness, deal with loss, manage stress and more. Participate in virtual events and ask your most pressing questions Weigh in on what kind of support would be most beneficial to you.…

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819: So Now What? (And Other Questions During Mass Layoffs) 13:56

8 weeks ago13:56

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Laid off? Worried about being laid off? You are not alone! It's a tough time and we're all experiencing it together. In the first two months of 2025, approximately 221,812 Americans have lost their jobs—a 33% increase compared to the same period in 2024*. These losses are across every sector, from government jobs to the private sector, hitting us all hard. There are no easy answers on when it will end and improve. The uncertainty, the ever-changing workforce and the constant reorgs can lead to stress, anxiety, grief and the looming question: So now what? What should I be doing to prepare myself right now? How do I survive if I lose my income unexpectedly? How can I connect with others so I don't feel alone? How do I remain resilient? How do I prepare myself for my next chapter? What are the ways that I create additional streams of income? Where can I turn to for support? These are the questions that are weighing on the minds of millions of working women. And though hope and prayer offer solace, they are not a substitute for support. You need a community that offers a place where you can be honest about what you're feeling and gain access to experts who can provide guidance to help you navigate these challenging times. That is the intention of the So Now What? community. As an executive coach for high-performing women, I have supported countless clients on their journeys of personal and professional development. Traditional coaching can require an investment of thousands of dollars, and not everyone can afford that right now. So I feel a deep responsibility to create a space where working women who are struggling can share what they're experiencing and get coaching support. GO TO sonowwhat.net to find out how you can join this community of supportive women, and listen to this episode to hear all the resources opportunties and insight you'll get by becoming a member for just $9.99. Support is Sexy podcast host Elayne Fluker is an ICF-trained Executive Coach for high-performing women who are transitioning to their next level. Her clients have worked for organizations such as Pfizer, Amazon, Expedia, Bain & Company and more. She is creator of Next Level Navigator -- a dynamic 3-month coaching program for women leaders. Elayne is also an author , speaker, podcast host and facilitator of leadership development workshops for Fortune 500 companies and organizations. Her LinkedIn Learning courses on soft skills, emotional intelligence and finding the right executive coach have been attended by more than 45,000 students. Click here to get in touch with Elayne. (*Statistic from Forbes)…

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818: How to Become an Angel Investor and Do Good While Doing Well with Marcia Dawood 42:54

10 weeks ago42:54

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Marcia Dawood is the author of Do Good While Doing Well and the host of The Angel Next Door Podcast, where she interviews angel investors and helps her listeners learn more how people got started investing in startup companies. Marcia holds investments in over 50 early-stage companies and funds, is a venture partner with Mindshift Capital and she's a member of Golden Seeds , one of the largest angel groups in the US. On this episode of the Support is Sexy podcast, Marcia shares insights on what exactly an angel investor is, why it might be a way for you to support companies that share your values. Plus we discuss tips for you entrepreneurs who might consider angel investors for your businesses. For more from Marcia Dawood visit https://www.marciadawood.com For more from host Elayne Fluker visit https://elaynefluker.com RESOURCES MENTIONED: startengine.com ifundwomen.com kickstarter.com republic.com wefunder.com indiegogo.com…

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817: How to Leverage Your Growth Mindset During Uncertainty with Cole Baker-Bagwell 47:21

12 weeks ago47:21

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Uncertainty -- like change -- is constant. But during certain times in our lives, Growth Mindset Coach Cole Baker-Bagwell says it may be more pronounced. In this episode of the Support is Sexy podcast, Cole shares how tapping into a growth mindset allows you to be resilient, reinvent and remain open to the possibilities. Learn more about Cole Baker-Bagwell at https://colebakerbagwell.com/…

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816: Welcome back! New season, new beginnings 10:29

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After taking some time off and navigating many major life changes, I'm excited to be back and doing something I love! Hosting the Support is Sexy podcast and having conversations with incredible women around the world (while reminding you of the importance of embracing support in your life no matter how ambitious you are) is such a joy. I'm grateful to be back and back at it! Whether you're a new listener or you've been here since the beginning, thank you sincerely. More to come!…

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Express Yourself 10:28

2 years ago10:28

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Are you holding something back? Are you staying quiet when there's a part of you aching to speak up? I hope this lesson I recently received about self-expression encourages you to open up, use your voice and find your peace.

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My (New) Life LIVE from Mexico 7:09

2 years ago7:09

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Exactly one year ago today I recorded a podcast episode from the beach in Playa del Carmen, Mexico and shared that I was determined to relocate to the country and start my next chapter there. Well, one year later -- here's how I made that happen, and the lessons I've learned along the way! You'll also notice that I've updated the name of the podcast from Support is Sexy to The Elayne Fluker Show . If you've been a long-time listener since I launched the podcast in 2016: (1) I appreciate you so much and (2) You can expect more of the same great conversations as well as my own life lessons on the show. I believe the name change allows us to be more expansive with the conversations and for me to present leaders, innovators and motivators who will support YOU no matter where you are in personal or professional journey. I hope you'll continue to take this ride with me! Onward!…

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How to Adopt a Possibility Mindset (Musings from Mexico) 3:58

3 years ago3:58

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I'm here, on the beach in Mexico, taking the first step toward my dream of living in this beautiful country full-time. I'm exploring the possibilities -- and I'm encouraging you to do the same. Where are you standing still in your life when you know deep down it's time to make a move. Where are you settling when you could be soaring? Now is the time to dream of the possibilities, and put a plan in place. Let's do this!…

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How to Create Your Signature Talk as a Thought Leader with Fearless Communicators Founder Eduardo Placer 56:07

3 years ago56:07

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Eduardo Placer is the Founder and CEO of Fearless Communicators® —which is diverse, inclusive, public speaking coaching business that works with emerging and accomplished thought leaders on what they say and how they say it. Fearless Communicators® teaches clients how to bring their whole body, mind, heart and spirit to a moment and channel their message in service of an audience. Originally from Miami, FL, Eduardo Placar is the proud son and grandson of immigrants, who fled both fascism in Spain and communism in Cuba. Prior to starting Fearless Communicators®, he was a professional actor for over 15 years, performing in over 35 plays and musicals throughout the United States. During a live chat with Eduardo via LinkedIn Live, we talked about creating your signature piece as a thought leader, what the pillars are of a powerful talk, how to communicate with authentic power, connectign with your audience through your story and so much more. Listen to hear his insightful tips! Learn more about Fearless Communicators® at fearlesscommunicators.com . TO JOIN ELAYNE & HER GUESTS VIA LIVE CHATS, FOLLOW HER ON LINKEDIN HERE: linkedin.com/in/elaynefluker ABOUT ELAYNE FLUKER: To learn more about me and my work as an executive coach, speaker and leadership development consultant supporting high-performing women and helping Fortune 500 companies, small businesses, and fast-scaling startups that want to attract and retain them, visit elaynefluker.com .…

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The Future of Work, the Great Resignation and What DEI Looks Like Today with Global DEI Strategist Nzinga Shaw 47:55

3 years ago47:55

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Nzinga Shaw is a global DEI Strategist who has worked in the space of DEI for 20+ years. Nzinga has hands-on experience and knowledge of inclusion & diversity, equity, accessibility, change & crisis management, human capital management, talent acquisition, organizational planning, employee relations, branding, and community engagement. She is the President and Global Practice Head of ZRG Partners, LLC — which is a global talent advisory firm, with core offerings that include data-based, executive search focusing on senior leadership around the world. On this episode of the Support is Sexy podcast, Nzinga talks to us about what DEI looks like these days, the truth about The Great Resignation and the future of work. Connect with Nzinga "Zing" Shaw on LinkedIn. ABOUT ELAYNE FLUKER: Learn more about me and my work as a coach, speaker and leadership development consultant for Fortune 500 companies, small businesses, and fast-scaling startups that want to attract and retain high-achieving women at elaynefluker.com .…

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810: How to Build A Brand That's Strong Enough to Last and Flexible Enough to Evolve with Social Media Expert Altimese Nicole 1:02:30

3 years ago1:02:30

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Does social media have you stressed out? How do you know what platform needs your focus? Do you need to be everywhere? These are some of the questions I asked social media and branding expert Altimese Nicole. Altimese is the founder of The EZER Agency -- a Black woman-owned, MBE Certified public relations and digital marketing agency that helps clients showcase sincere storytelling through digital marketing and PR that drives results. Learn insider secrets for how you can leverage social media in a way that smart and effective, and build a brand that's strong enough to last, yet flexible enough to evolve. Learn more about Altimese's company, the Ezer Agency at https://www.theezeragency.com/ ABOUT ELAYNE FLUKER: Learn more about me and my work as a coach, speaker and leadership development consultant for Fortune 500 companies, small businesses, and fast-scaling startups that want to attract and retain high-achieving women at elaynefluker.com .…

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809: Are You Childfree and Worried about Your Care in the Future? Childfree Wealth Specialist Jay Zigmont Shares His Top Financial Tips 58:50

3 years ago58:50

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"Who's going to take care of me when I'm old?" As someone who is childfree (and who is also primary caregiver for my elderly parents), I have often asked myself this question. In fact, the question gave me lots of anxiety. That is until I came across a recent article featuring Childfree Wealth Specialist Jay Zigmont. Jay Zigmont is an Advice-Only, Fee-Only, Fiduciary, CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™. He holds a PhD is in Adult Learning from the University of Mississippi and he has been featured in Wall Street Journal , Market Watch , Business Insider and more. Jay provides life and financial planning advice to childfree individuals. As one of only few men to appear as a solo guest on Support is Sexy podcast, I asked him to join me for a LIVE CHAT to talk about being childfree, financial independence and what his top financial tips are that we should keep in mind for peace of mind. Here's a replay of our great conversation! Learn more about Jay Zigmont at https://childfreewealth.com/ ABOUT ELAYNE FLUKER: Learn more about me and my work as a coach, speaker and leadership development consultant for Fortune 500 companies, small businesses, and fast-scaling startups that want to attract and retain high-achieving women at elaynefluker.com .…

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808: "A League of Their Own" Co-star Andia Winslow on How to Play Full Out 42:25

3 years ago42:25