Welcome to the first episode in a brand-new miniseries on Tea Time with Tara: Can We Talk?

In this deep dive, Tara breaks down why communication in relationships—especially heterosexual ones—can feel so frustrating, confusing, and downright exhausting. From emotional shutdowns and the “fix-it” response to scorekeeping and unspoken expectations, this episode explores the real reasons we struggle to feel heard, understood, and emotionally safe with our partners.

Tara shares personal stories, patterns she’s seen in her own life and others, and how our upbringing, trauma, and gender roles all show up when things get tense.

Whether you’ve felt dismissed, defensive, overwhelmed, or just totally stuck… this one’s for you.

🎧 Let’s get honest, vulnerable, and maybe a little uncomfortable—because growth starts with truth.