Money talk: it triggers people and stirs up conversations. That’s because it really is important—it offers choices and freedom, letting us create lives and businesses that align with our individual paths. However, have you noticed the often toxic rhetoric around it, especially from some so-called gurus claiming that if you’re not a millionaire, you’re not working hard enough? Or if you just do this ‘one thing’, you’ll make six figures overnight?

Before you know it, you're questioning your own achievements and feeling as if you’ve somehow fallen behind. Can we pause right there? Today, I want to break down what it means to truly talk about money in a way that's impactful, genuine and free from shame:

1. Transparency Over Hype: instead of talking about the money goals we achieved, let’s start discussing how we got there, whether through consistent growth, stellar projects, or trial and error.

2. Meeting People Where They Are: Decide what success looks like for you, rather than hinging it on hitting specific income numbers.

3. Focusing on Sustainable Success: Start by setting realistic, clear goals that stretch across short, medium and long-term timelines, rather than focusing on generating quick cash.

Here’s a challenge for you: reframe your money mindset by asking yourself some honest questions: Are you measuring success against someone else’s wealth? Do you feel undue pressure to hit certain financial milestones? Are your financial discussions empowering, or do they leave you feeling less than?

If today’s topic resonated with you, I’d love to hear from you. Drop me a DM on Instagram at @emmarmcqueen and share your money mindset shift. Let’s continue this dialogue in a way that feels good, safe, challenging and sustainable.

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