Dr. Brittany McGeehan unpacks the truth about perfectionism—why it isn’t a strength, but a survival pattern—and how letting it go unlocks authentic leadership, intimacy, and creativity.

You’ve been praised for your standards, admired for your discipline, and told you “make it look easy.” But perfectionism isn’t proof of excellence—it’s a nervous system trying to stay safe.

In this final episode of the Five Myths High-Performing Women Still Believe series, Dr. Brittany McGeehan dismantles the idea that “perfectionism is just who I am.”
She reveals how perfectionism forms as a trauma adaptation, how it rewires your brain’s reward system, and why continuing to identify with it keeps you trapped in survival rather than expansion.

Through neuroscience, relational psychology, and identity work, Brittany teaches how to replace the old pattern of performing for approval with grounded self-trust—and why reclaiming your wholeness is the key to sustainable success in both leadership and love.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN

• The difference between healthy ambition and trauma-based perfectionism
• How early attachment patterns program the brain’s need for flawlessness
• Why perfectionism activates the limbic system (and shuts down creativity)
• How to use the Reticular Activating System to rewire identity beliefs
• Language shifts that retrain your brain from “I am a perfectionist” to “I am becoming more whole”
• A guided inner-child exercise to reclaim the part of you that learned to earn love through performance