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Feeling like your partner is the reason for your anxiety?

Here’s the truth: it’s not what he does, says, or should say or do—it’s the story you tell yourself about what it means. It’s ALWAYS our thoughts that create our emotions.

🚩 Examples:

  • "He didn’t text back—what if he’s pulling away?"
  • "He’s dressing up for work. Jenny’s there. Am I not enough?"
  • "He asked for space. Does that mean he doesn’t love me?"

These fears don’t come from your partner—they come from anxious attachment and abandonment wounds.

🔍 The Real Work:

  • Ask yourself: What am I making this mean?
  • Rewrite the story: “He needs space, and that’s okay. It doesn’t mean he’s leaving.”
  • Choose thoughts that feel true and safe.

Start challenging your thoughts today—because peace starts inside YOU. 🧠✨

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