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36: 10 Micro Habits to DETACH from YOUR need for APPROVAL to stop the endless chase of validation

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Are you tired of constantly seeking approval and validation from your partner?

Yes?? Then THIS episode is for you.

10 powerful micro habits that help you detach from your need for approval and transform your anxious attachment into secure confidence.

Learn practical ways to detach yourself from someone without compromising your relationship.

These simple two-minute practices will help you stop seeking external validation and reclaim your self-worth. If you're caught in the cycle of needing approval and validation from an avoidant partner, these micro habits will teach you how to master detachment while staying connected.

Stop the chasing, heal your self-doubt, and discover how to let go of the insecurity that keeps you seeking validation.

Perfect for anyone in an anxious-avoidant relationship who wants to break free from male validation or any external validation that's draining your energy and peace.

📢 ON SALE 📢

🖤 Attachment 101 Master Guide 🖤 only 7 EURO (👀 Anxious spin to Secure within)

➡️ If your relationship feels like an emotional rollercoaster, you’re not building love—you’re surviving it. Secure partners don’t guess where they stand. Get the guide and break the cycle.

➤➤➤ GRAB IT NOW (only €7)

https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/101

🖤 TEXT ANXIETY – How to STOP Obsessing Over Their Text in 21 Days or Less 🖤

➡️ If your peace DISAPPEARS the second they don’t reply, or you read too much into their "thumbs up" reply—your partner's communication is NOT the problem. Your anxious brain is.

You DON’T need another text. You need this: Tools to break your obsession with them.

➤➤➤ https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/textanxiety

🖤 STOP OVERTHINKING Your Relationship with Your AVOIDANT Partner (4 Steps)

🖤 *on beta = sale * (= additional free get 1:1 email support)

➡️ If you're constantly worried about the future INSTEAD of enjoying today, then what's the point of the relationship? You’re not building love; your anxious brain is obsessed with chasing fear.

➤➤➤ Ready to live in the present?

https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/overthinkingcourse

📘 GRAB MY ANXIOUS TO SECURE BLUEPRINT COURSE! 🔐

Get on the waitlist for exclusive early-bird pricing!

https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/blueprint

🎁 FREE RESOURCES:

⭑ Attachment Library:

25+ resources https://linktr.ee/the.anxious.to.secure.coach

⭑ 3-Min Attachment Style Quiz https://themarriagecoach.outgrow.us/attachmentstyle3mquiz

⭑ Relationship Anxiety Flowchart

https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/flow Ready to Heal Your Anxious Attachment to detach for good?

☁️ The Worry-Free ☁️ Flow-Chart for Relationship Anxiety

https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/worryfree

🖤 Book A free Call to check if we are a good match for my 1:1 programs to heal your anxious attachment:

https://tr.ee/PInPmy

These micro habits will help you detach from your need for approval while still maintaining healthy connections.

Stop seeking external validation and start trusting yourself!

Learn effective ways to detach from unhealthy patterns without disconnecting from relationships.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Understanding the Need for Approval from your (Avoidant Partner) or other People in your life
00:23 Why Your Craving for Validation Isn’t About Happiness—It’s About Survival
02:37 What Happens When You DO NOT Detach from Needing VALIDATION
06:05 My promise for you...
06:27 10 Micro Habits to Detach from YOUR NEED for approval from your partner
06:38 Micro Habit #01 Reassurance Redirection
07:57 Micro Habit #02 The 2-Minute Validation Delay
10:04 Micro Habit #03 "If Not Now, Then Another Time"
12:44 Micro Habit #04 The "Validation Hunger" Energy Audit
14:27 Micro Habit #05 Mirror Pep Talk
20:53 Micro Habit #06 Shift from "Do They Approve?" to "Do I Approve?"
23:17 Mirco Habit #07 Don't Add Meaning
25:33 Micro Habit #08 The Energy Bubble
27:40 Micro Habit #09 The Validation Vault
30:13 Micro Habit: #10 the 30Sec Check In
31:24 BONUS Micro Habit: We're All on Level Ground
32:55 The Journey of Self-Validation and Healing

Remember:

Change in your relationship starts with YOU, thought by thought and action by action.

DISCLAIMER: I'm not a therapist or doctor. This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It's not intended to diagnose, treat, or heal any mental health conditions. This is not meant for situations involving abusive relationships of any kind. Always seek professional advice for personal health concerns.

  continue reading

48 episodes

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Content provided by Jula - The Anxious To Secure Coach. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Jula - The Anxious To Secure Coach or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://staging.podcastplayer.com/legal.

Are you tired of constantly seeking approval and validation from your partner?

Yes?? Then THIS episode is for you.

10 powerful micro habits that help you detach from your need for approval and transform your anxious attachment into secure confidence.

Learn practical ways to detach yourself from someone without compromising your relationship.

These simple two-minute practices will help you stop seeking external validation and reclaim your self-worth. If you're caught in the cycle of needing approval and validation from an avoidant partner, these micro habits will teach you how to master detachment while staying connected.

Stop the chasing, heal your self-doubt, and discover how to let go of the insecurity that keeps you seeking validation.

Perfect for anyone in an anxious-avoidant relationship who wants to break free from male validation or any external validation that's draining your energy and peace.

📢 ON SALE 📢

🖤 Attachment 101 Master Guide 🖤 only 7 EURO (👀 Anxious spin to Secure within)

➡️ If your relationship feels like an emotional rollercoaster, you’re not building love—you’re surviving it. Secure partners don’t guess where they stand. Get the guide and break the cycle.

➤➤➤ GRAB IT NOW (only €7)

https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/101

🖤 TEXT ANXIETY – How to STOP Obsessing Over Their Text in 21 Days or Less 🖤

➡️ If your peace DISAPPEARS the second they don’t reply, or you read too much into their "thumbs up" reply—your partner's communication is NOT the problem. Your anxious brain is.

You DON’T need another text. You need this: Tools to break your obsession with them.

➤➤➤ https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/textanxiety

🖤 STOP OVERTHINKING Your Relationship with Your AVOIDANT Partner (4 Steps)

🖤 *on beta = sale * (= additional free get 1:1 email support)

➡️ If you're constantly worried about the future INSTEAD of enjoying today, then what's the point of the relationship? You’re not building love; your anxious brain is obsessed with chasing fear.

➤➤➤ Ready to live in the present?

https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/overthinkingcourse

📘 GRAB MY ANXIOUS TO SECURE BLUEPRINT COURSE! 🔐

Get on the waitlist for exclusive early-bird pricing!

https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/blueprint

🎁 FREE RESOURCES:

⭑ Attachment Library:

25+ resources https://linktr.ee/the.anxious.to.secure.coach

⭑ 3-Min Attachment Style Quiz https://themarriagecoach.outgrow.us/attachmentstyle3mquiz

⭑ Relationship Anxiety Flowchart

https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/flow Ready to Heal Your Anxious Attachment to detach for good?

☁️ The Worry-Free ☁️ Flow-Chart for Relationship Anxiety

https://www.the-marriage-coach.com/worryfree

🖤 Book A free Call to check if we are a good match for my 1:1 programs to heal your anxious attachment:

https://tr.ee/PInPmy

These micro habits will help you detach from your need for approval while still maintaining healthy connections.

Stop seeking external validation and start trusting yourself!

Learn effective ways to detach from unhealthy patterns without disconnecting from relationships.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Understanding the Need for Approval from your (Avoidant Partner) or other People in your life
00:23 Why Your Craving for Validation Isn’t About Happiness—It’s About Survival
02:37 What Happens When You DO NOT Detach from Needing VALIDATION
06:05 My promise for you...
06:27 10 Micro Habits to Detach from YOUR NEED for approval from your partner
06:38 Micro Habit #01 Reassurance Redirection
07:57 Micro Habit #02 The 2-Minute Validation Delay
10:04 Micro Habit #03 "If Not Now, Then Another Time"
12:44 Micro Habit #04 The "Validation Hunger" Energy Audit
14:27 Micro Habit #05 Mirror Pep Talk
20:53 Micro Habit #06 Shift from "Do They Approve?" to "Do I Approve?"
23:17 Mirco Habit #07 Don't Add Meaning
25:33 Micro Habit #08 The Energy Bubble
27:40 Micro Habit #09 The Validation Vault
30:13 Micro Habit: #10 the 30Sec Check In
31:24 BONUS Micro Habit: We're All on Level Ground
32:55 The Journey of Self-Validation and Healing

Remember:

Change in your relationship starts with YOU, thought by thought and action by action.

DISCLAIMER: I'm not a therapist or doctor. This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It's not intended to diagnose, treat, or heal any mental health conditions. This is not meant for situations involving abusive relationships of any kind. Always seek professional advice for personal health concerns.

  continue reading

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