In this episode, we explore how couples can build habits that make marriage easier—and even more joyful—for the long haul. Guest Arlene Pellicane, author, speaker, and host of The Happy Home Podcast, joins Alisa to share insights from her new book Making Marriage Easier: How to Love and Like Your Spouse for Life. Together, they unpack biblical wisdom, research-based habits, and personal stories from Arlene’s 26 years of marriage.

They discuss common misconceptions about marriage, the power of gratitude and hope, and the four key habits that strengthen every relationship. Arlene and Alisa also dive into handling grief and loss, how couples can reconnect through simple moments of fun, and the impact of technology on intimacy and attention.

🎥 Watch on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/cMB3HAa4OII

Resources Mentioned:

• Making Marriage Easier: How to Love and Like Your Spouse for Life – Arlene’s newest book filled with humor, biblical insight, and practical tools for a lasting marriage. 👉 https://www.amazon.com/Making-Marriage-Easier-Love-Spouse-ebook/dp/B0D99XK3R4
• The Happy Home Podcast – Arlene’s show helping families grow closer and live with joy. 👉 www.accessmore.com/pd/https/arlenepellicanecom/podcasts/
• Going Deeper Together: Spiritual Armor Required – A five-lesson online course by Chris and Alisa Grace equipping couples to recognize the enemy’s tactics and stand strong together. 👉 http://t.ly/iTL9
• How to Ask Better Questions – A free downloadable handout to help you become a better listener and question asker in marriage, friendships, and family life. 👉 https://assets.biola.edu/4396738754672012438/attachment/e06213efc42d52c08cca652e4ed63668/250620_-_CMR_-_Guides_and_Tip_Sheets_Ask_Better_Questions.pdf
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  • Website: arlenepellicane.com/

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About the Hosts:

Chris Grace, Ph.D., and Alisa Grace are passionate about helping people build and sustain healthy relationships. As leaders of the Biola University Center for Marriage and Relationships, they combine the wisdom of Scripture with scholarly research to offer practical advice and insights. Learn more about their work at cmr.biola.edu.