The Pillar Of Empathy With Jim Carlough The Assistant Principal podcast

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The Pillar of Empathy with Jim Carlough

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Description:

Today’s interview will be a bit different as my guest is coming from four decades of leadership experience in the corporate arena. Despite the different setting, the leadership lessons will sound familiar to you. I think this discussion with someone coming from a different place invites us to reexamine fundamental leadership themes from a slightly different perspective.

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Show Intro

Guest Bio:

With over 30 years of leadership experience, Jim Carlough is an accomplished business strategist, speaker, and author. Having successfully driven explosive growth for healthcare organizations—from start-ups to industry leaders — Jim is a trusted expert in building high-performing teams, revitalizing underperforming businesses, and guiding organizations through transformational change. Jim's core philosophy—leaders aren’t born; they’re developed—challenges the myth of innate leadership. In his book, The Six Pillars of Effective Leadership: A Roadmap to Success, Jim delivers a practical and inspiring guide for leaders at every stage of their journey. His approach focuses on six essential traits that empower individuals to embrace leadership as a skill that can be learned, honed, and mastered through experience, mentorship, and intentional growth.

Warmup questions:

We always like to start with a celebration. What are you celebrating today?
Is there a story that will help listeners understand why you are doing what you do?

Questions/Topics/Prompts

You’ve written a book based on your experiences and the leadership lessons you’ve learned from others. In The Six Pillars of Effective Leadership, you identify empathy and compassion as two of the six. I am really intrigued by this as my immediate reaction was, “aren’t these the same thing?” Help me understand…
You shared with me in our email exchange you had a story involving a middle school principal that related to empathy and compassion. Can you share it?
Your background is in the private sector and I noticed you were a VP of Client Development for Health Management Systems. I’ve done some work with corporate leaders and have been amazed at how similar being a VP is to being a school administrator. Corporate has their demands and the people you serve have a different set of demands, and you are right there in the middle trying to muddle your way through. Can you talk about this tension and then share some wisdom about how school leaders can navigate this?

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Closing questions:

What part of your own leadership are you still trying to get better at?
If listeners could take just one thing away from today’s podcast, what would it be?
Before we go, is there anything else that you’d like to share with our listeners?
Where can people learn more about you and your work…

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Summary/wrap up

Whether you are in a school or the private sector, you can’t lead from your office (MBWA)
Tasks versus people; tension between priorities
Transparency, honesty, information => trust (integrity)
Even during an end, your work matters (should be much easier in education, but we need to stay compassionate by supporting and growing our people)
Link in the show notes – free books to the first three who comment on our LinkedIn post!

Thank you to our sponsors!

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Jim’s links:

FaceBook: http://www.facebook.com/jimcarloughms

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jimcarloughmotivation/

LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/company/jimcarloughms

YouTube: www.youtube.com/@jimcarloughms

Frederick’s Links:

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