In Episode 165, Lisa Canera examines "the space between" - the developmental gap parents observe between their autistic children and neurotypical peers. Drawing from her experience with her teenage son Ben and insights from her coaching practice, Lisa offers practical guidance on responding effectively when this gap becomes more apparent. She provides a balanced perspective on processing emotions rather than defaulting to additional interventions or self-blame.

What You'll Learn

• How the developmental gap can trigger stress responses in parents
• Why middle school often represents a turning point where social differences become more pronounced
• The counterproductive nature of constantly trying to "catch up" through additional therapies
• Practical strategies for pausing before making reactive decisions
• How acknowledging reality creates space for more intentional parenting choices

Case Studies

• Lisa discusses her son Ben's experience with social skills development as peer interactions became more complex in middle school
• A client's realization when her son's differences became apparent during a track practice that had previously been successful
• Common patterns of parental response when confronted with developmental differences

Special Announcement

Lisa currently has two openings in her one-on-one coaching program. This opportunity includes:

• Personalized coaching tailored to your specific challenges
• Access to the group program (only available to current clients and alumni)
• Support for becoming a calm, confident parent your autistic child needs

About Your Host

Lisa Canera is a lawyer, certified life coach, and full-time single mother of a teenager with autism. Her evidence-based approach helps parents navigate the complexities of raising children with autism while maintaining their emotional wellbeing.

Take Action

Visit theautismmomcoach.com to schedule your consultation call.