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161: Finding Yourself Without Losing Your Family - Healing from Dysfunctional Family Patterns with Jerry Wise

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What do you do when your family is the source of your deepest wounds? How do you hold onto your identity without cutting off the people who raised you?

In this transformative conversation, therapist and relationship coach Jerry Wise discusses the concept of self-differentiation—a powerful framework for healing from family dysfunction without shame or blame.

Whether you’re navigating complex family ties, considering going no contact, or simply longing to feel more like you, this episode offers a clear path forward rooted in wisdom, compassion, and courage.

Jerry shares:

  • His own journey from dysfunction to emotional clarity

  • Why cutting ties doesn’t always lead to healing—and what might

  • How to spot when you’re still emotionally enmeshed (even with distance)

  • Practical steps to stop reacting and start reclaiming your sense of self

If you’ve ever felt stuck in old family roles, overwhelmed by guilt, or confused about how to move forward with—or without—your family, this episode will meet you with both empathy and actionable insight.

🖥 Learn more about Jerry’s work: Jerry Wise Relationship Systems

📺 Watch his free training and explore his self-differentiation course

If you liked this episode, you'll love:

  • Episode 147 — The Hidden Trauma of Being the Chosen Child & a Path Toward Healing—Making Sense of Your Family Story

  • Episode 127 Healing Childhood Wounds—The Enmeshed Family & 5 Toxic Patterns that Affect Your Ability to Thrive in Adult Relationships
  • ⁠Episode 85⁠ — The Goal of a Healthy Family & 6 Roles We Take On In Dysfunction

Thanks to our Sponsors!

  • This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/BESTOFYOU and get on your way to being your best self.

  • Go to AquaTru.com and enter code BESTOFYOU at checkout to get 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier!‍

  • Go to ⁠Quince.com/bestofyou⁠ for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order!

  • Visit⁠ GoGeviti.com⁠ to learn more about how you can start optimizing your health without leaving home today and use code BESTOFYOU.

Editing by Giulia Hjort

Sound engineering by Kelly Kramarik

Music by Andy Luiten

While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.‍

© 2025 Alison Cook. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Please do not copy or share the contents of this webpage or transcript without permission from the author.

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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What do you do when your family is the source of your deepest wounds? How do you hold onto your identity without cutting off the people who raised you?

In this transformative conversation, therapist and relationship coach Jerry Wise discusses the concept of self-differentiation—a powerful framework for healing from family dysfunction without shame or blame.

Whether you’re navigating complex family ties, considering going no contact, or simply longing to feel more like you, this episode offers a clear path forward rooted in wisdom, compassion, and courage.

Jerry shares:

  • His own journey from dysfunction to emotional clarity

  • Why cutting ties doesn’t always lead to healing—and what might

  • How to spot when you’re still emotionally enmeshed (even with distance)

  • Practical steps to stop reacting and start reclaiming your sense of self

If you’ve ever felt stuck in old family roles, overwhelmed by guilt, or confused about how to move forward with—or without—your family, this episode will meet you with both empathy and actionable insight.

🖥 Learn more about Jerry’s work: Jerry Wise Relationship Systems

📺 Watch his free training and explore his self-differentiation course

If you liked this episode, you'll love:

  • Episode 147 — The Hidden Trauma of Being the Chosen Child & a Path Toward Healing—Making Sense of Your Family Story

  • Episode 127 Healing Childhood Wounds—The Enmeshed Family & 5 Toxic Patterns that Affect Your Ability to Thrive in Adult Relationships
  • ⁠Episode 85⁠ — The Goal of a Healthy Family & 6 Roles We Take On In Dysfunction

Thanks to our Sponsors!

  • This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/BESTOFYOU and get on your way to being your best self.

  • Go to AquaTru.com and enter code BESTOFYOU at checkout to get 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier!‍

  • Go to ⁠Quince.com/bestofyou⁠ for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order!

  • Visit⁠ GoGeviti.com⁠ to learn more about how you can start optimizing your health without leaving home today and use code BESTOFYOU.

Editing by Giulia Hjort

Sound engineering by Kelly Kramarik

Music by Andy Luiten

While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.‍

© 2025 Alison Cook. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Please do not copy or share the contents of this webpage or transcript without permission from the author.

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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