In Chris Voss' book "Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended on It", one major point made is that a high-stakes conversation is never just about the words being said. Much more, it's about hearing the emotional state of the other person and really listening to what they have to say and what they need from you. How does this compare to your model for debriefing after a critical event? Do we sometimes have to negotiate that there is even learning to be had from a bad experience? Join the CMS Book Club for a thorough discussion as well as a case walkthrough of deep listening and mirroring in an admissions conversation in a pediatric ER during winter respiratory disease season. With Roxane Gardner, Jeff Cooper, Lia Cruz, Grace Ng, and Fernando Salvetti.