In this episode of Divine Decode, host Pragya gets real with transformational coach and bestselling author Irina Shehovsov about what actually happens when life after 40 forces you to question everything. This is not a motivational pep talk. It is a clear look at what it means to wake up one day and realize you have been the mom, the wife, the caregiver. And somewhere along the way you misplaced yourself.

Irina breaks down how she went from people pleasing and waiting to be rescued to becoming a single parent who decided to rescue herself. She shares how simple habits like morning walks, movement, gratitude, forgiveness, and meditation helped her rebuild identity across the four pillars. physical, emotional, mental and spiritual.

If you are a woman in your thirties, forties or beyond who feels stuck in a loop of “wake up, survive, repeat,” this conversation gives you straight talking frameworks to start again from the inside out. It is about designing a life that feels alive instead of sleepwalking toward burnout.

About the Guest:

Irina Shehovsov is the founder of Reclaim Your Life, an NLP trainer and coach, Time Line Therapy practitioner, motivational speaker and multiple bestselling author. She helps brokenhearted and discouraged people feel alive again by teaching them how to take charge of their physical, emotional, mental and spiritual states so they can build a life that actually works for them, not just for everyone else around them. irinashehovsov.com+1

Her work focuses on life after divorce, identity after heartbreak and practical tools to live, dream and grow with intention rather than default.

Key Takeaways :

• Life after 40 is not a decline. it can be a reset. Irina shares how she felt half asleep before 40, drifting along to keep the peace, then hit a breaking point that forced her to rebuild her life on her own terms.

• Identity erosion is real for caregivers and mothers. When you only live through labels like wife, mom or caregiver, you slowly lose contact with who you are. The work is to remember who you were before the world told you who to be, and who you choose to be now.

• Start with the body to shift your state. For Irina, a simple morning walk became the first non negotiable habit that pulled her out of a cycle of misery. Movement is one of the fastest ways to shift mood and mindset.

• Work all four states. physical, emotional, mental and spiritual. She uses habits like movement, gratitude, forgiveness, meditation and doing one thing that sets your soul on fire every day to create stability across all four levels, instead of just “thinking positive.”

• Gratitude and forgiveness clear emotional clutter. Holding grudges and replaying old arguments keeps you energetically stuck. Learning not to drag yesterday’s anger into today stops you from “squeezing out” the same emotional chaos on everyone else.

• Presence is a strategy, not a slogan. Irina invites women to actually taste their food, feel the breeze, watch the sunrise and build micro moments of presence that add up to a life that feels lived, not just managed.

• Joy after heartbreak starts with self respect, not a new relationship. The work is to date your own life. create routines, agreements and habits that show your mind and body you are worthy of love, time and care even when nobody else is in the room.

How to Connect with Irina Shehovsov

• Connect with Irina Shehovsov:
  Website: www.irinashehovsov.com
  YouTube: Happiness Academy
  Podcasts: Available on Apple, Spotify, and all major platforms
  Books: Search “Shehovsov” on Amazon or via her website

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