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Have you been "working on yourself" for years but still feel stuck? You might be caught in the self-improvement trap nobody talks about.
In this eye-opening episode, Stef reveals the hidden flaw in most self-improvement advice: it treats every mind the same. But your psychology is unique—and what transforms one person can actually trap another.
Discover why the self-help industry keeps you on the hamster wheel, and how a 2,400-year-old map combined with modern psychology shows you the personalized path that actually works for YOUR specific mind.
IN THIS EPISODE:
- The self-improvement trap that keeps you buying the next book without real change
- Why one-size-fits-all personal development fails your unique psychology
- The ancient map hiding in plain sight for 2,400 years
- What Yoga actually is (beyond mats and studios)
- How your Enneagram type determines which self-help works
- The breakthrough making personalized ancient wisdom possible
- Working WITH your psychology instead of against it
THIS WEEK'S PRACTICE:
Create your "Self-Improvement Graveyard" list. Write down every approach that didn't create lasting change. Next to each, ask: "What if this failed not because I'm broken, but because it wasn't designed for MY mind?"
5-10 minutes. No judgment. Just honest observation.
RESOURCES:
Free Enneagram Matrix Assessment - Stop guessing why self-improvement hasn't worked. Discover your exact psychological design in 90 minutes. Five integrated evaluations reveal which approaches will actually transform YOU.
Visit: enneagramkeys.com
Pi9 Purpose Intelligence Program - 20-month personalized journey designed for YOUR Enneagram type. Integrates The Enneagram Matrix, Yoga Sutras, and AI guidance.
Learn more: enneagramkeys.com/purpose-intelligence-pi9
Valley of Guardians Community - Private community for those who've broken free from generic self-help.
Join: valleyofguardians.circle.so
24/7 Live Sanctuaries - Global community space for meditation, journaling, and deep work.
Access: youtube.com/watch?v=oE0epppuIXI
CONNECT:
Website: enneagramkeys.com (evolving to pi9.com)
Instagram: @stefbecker.sadashiva
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/stefbecker-sadashiva
Email: [email protected]
ABOUT THE ENNEAGRAM MATRIX:
The Enneagram Matrix reveals why generic self-improvement fails and shows you the personalized path that works for YOUR mind. Hosted by Stef Becker, creator of Pi9 Purpose Intelligence and The Enneagram Matrix system—where ancient wisdom meets modern psychology for real transformation.
ABOUT YOUR HOST:
Stef Becker (Sadashiva) is the creator of Pi9 Purpose Intelligence and The Enneagram Matrix system. As an IEA Certified Enneagram Coach, RTT Clinical Hypnosis Practitioner, and CEO since 2009, he uniquely bridges worldly professional success with deep spiritual practice.
A devoted disciple of Gurumatha Amma since 2012, Stef has practiced classical yoga for 25+ years, studying Patanjali's Yoga Sutras, the Bhagavad Gita, Jeevana Dharma Yoga, and Vedic mantras.
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