Nicole Ferry is a 26-year veteran of law enforcement who’s on a mission to help others build resilience by sharing her heart-breaking stories of PTSD, trauma and suicide. Nicole is best known for her talk “What the Hell? The 3 Things I learned in the worst year of my life.” Nicole has spent her life in law enforcement. She holds a degree in Criminal Justice, she’s been an executive police leader for a railroad, she did an 8-year tour as a Military Police Officer and is a graduate of the FBI National Academy in Quantico, VA.I don’t have any direct experience with PTSD, any more than I know what it’s like to get a yellow brick from the FBI or investigate deaths on America’s railways. But I felt Nicole’s stories in my bones. I know how it feels to carry the weight of past traumas and the toll that takes on me and the people around me. I also know the freedom that comes from letting that baggage go. This conversation is a bit of a roller coaster. It’s heavy material but we also laughed a lot, mostly as I tried to relate Nicole’s stories to my only frame of reference - Law & Order, A Few Good Men and bro-cop movies set in Boston. Nicole’s brave stories carry a message of resilience and hope. But most importantly, they’re a reminder of how much we can learn from those with dramatically different experiences from our own.Takeaways

• Authority figures can have a dramatic impact on how we see ourselves early in life
• You don’t have to be a first responder to have powerful stressors in your job
• Everyone accumulates stress over their lives that will eventually come out in terrible ways if you don’t manage it
• Simple daily practices like journaling, meditation and physical exercise make a huge difference in managing stress and staying mentally healthy
• Tragedy can present you with an opportunity to find your purpose and help others

Connect with NicoleWebsiteLinkedInSurvive First National Gala: Guest SpeakerListen to Nicole on these podcasts:Uncharted Journey: Nicole Ferry, Mental Health ChampionLaw Enforcement Life Coach / Sometimes Heroes Need Help Podcast: Nicole Ferry

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