In this week’s episode of The Illicit Feminine, host Elizabeth Marth invites special guest Kassi Underwood—author of May Cause Love and founder of The Feminine Urge into a raw and powerful conversation about celibacy, feminine energy, and reclaiming sovereignty in relationships.
Kassi shares her transformative year-long journey of intentional celibacy, not as a religious or cultural prescription, but as a profound self-exploration of feminine power outside the confines of partnership. Together, Elizabeth and Kassi unravel the misconceptions about celibacy, polarity, and what it means to live in alignment with your feminine essence.
Through candid stories, energetic wisdom, and unapologetic truth-telling, this episode explores why so many women find themselves trapped in their masculine energy within relationships, how feminine energy has been devalued even within feminist spaces, and what it looks like to reclaim your authentic expression of rage, softness, chaos, and sensuality.
Whether you’re navigating partnership dynamics, healing from over-giving, or longing to reconnect with your feminine essence, this conversation is a guide back to sovereignty, self-worth, and authentic connection.
Episode Highlights
02:00 Why Kassi chose a year of celibacy and how it reshaped her relationship with self
05:00 Understanding masculine vs. feminine energy—and why it has nothing to do with gender
08:00 How modern feminism can unintentionally devalue true feminine expression
11:00 Beyond softness: the full spectrum of feminine energy—rage, chaos, and wildness included
14:00 Financial and emotional disempowerment: why women lose themselves in relationships
18:00 Preserving feminine energy as the true fuel for polarity, intimacy, and desire
23:00 Why transparency and truth-telling are the ultimate feminine gifts in partnership
28:00 Moving from the “wounded feminine” to empowered feminine expression
33:00 How celibacy creates space to study, express, and embody your feminine essence
41:00 Containment, polarity, and what women should truly seek in relationships
47:00 Rebuilding self-esteem and radiance by creating a world with yourself first
52:00 Kassi introduces *The Feminine Urge* program and the women it serves
If you’re ready to rediscover the power of your feminine energy, break free from over-functioning in your masculine, and step into sovereignty, creativity, and authentic connection, this episode is an invitation to reclaim your essence.

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Elizabeth