Season 4: Episode 19: The Communication Crisis

Welcome back to The Jenni Carroll Perspective! After a brief hiatus, we're diving into a topic that resonates deeply with many: communication in relationships. As a Marriage & Family Therapist, I’m excited to explore why communication often feels like the greatest challenge in marriages and long-term relationships.

In this episode, we’ll uncover why even the best communicators struggle with their spouses. It turns out, the root of the issue is not just about how we talk but about the deeper dynamics at play. Communication is crucial for connection—it's our primary tool for bonding and resolving issues. However, when communication falters, it usually signals underlying problems.

We’ll explore the concept that communication issues often stem from unmet needs and expectations, personalization of others' actions, and the quest for validation. These factors create a complex formula that influences our communication patterns. You’ll learn why our internal struggles and personal expectations can disrupt our ability to connect effectively with our partners.

Additionally, we’ll discuss how the dynamics of personal worth and validation impact our interactions. Often, when we feel our worth is threatened, our communication can become defensive or resentful. Understanding these dynamics can be transformative, helping you navigate and improve your relationship communication.

Key takeaways:

• Communication Breakdown: It's rarely about the words themselves but about the deeper emotional and psychological dynamics.
• Underlying Dynamics: Needs, expectations, and personal worth play a significant role in how we interact with our partners.
• Personalization and Resentment: How we interpret our partner’s actions and our reliance on them for validation can impact our communication.

Join me as we embark on this journey to enhance our understanding of communication in relationships. Thank you for tuning in, and remember, you are light and you are love.

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