How to Build Lasting Relationships - Insights from Dr. Clarence Shuler
Manage episode 473773839 series 3562788
π The secret to a thriving marriage isn't a mystery, it's communication! π€ Join Gino and Julia Barbaro as they dive deep with relationship expert Dr. Clarence Shuler. He is the President/CEO of BLR: Building Lasting Relationships.
Learn practical tips to truly connect, resolve conflict, and build a partnership that lasts. π Discover the power of assuming nothing and talking about everything!
This episode is packed with wisdom for every couple.
Key Takeaways:
β In the same way that 'location, location, location' dictates real estate value, 'communication, communication, communication' determines marital strength.
β Understanding Before Agreement: The goal of communication isn't just to get your point across, but to truly understand your spouse's perspective, often leading to agreement.
β Marriage as a Continuous Learning Curve: Just like mastering any skill, building a strong marriage requires ongoing learning and adaptation. Be a perpetual student of your partner, recognizing their evolving needs and communication style.
β Spiritual Leadership Through Initiation (for Men): The concept of spiritual leadership isn't about dominance, but about men taking the initiative in shared spiritual practices like prayer, fostering intimacy and guidance within the marriage.
Chapters:
0:00 - The Golden Rule of Marriage
0:18 - Welcome Dr. Clarence Shuler
1:39 - A Calling to Connect
4:11 - The Pillars of Marital Success (and Failure)
4:18 - Communication is King (and Queen!)
5:37 - Understanding Leads to Agreement
5:55 - Becoming a Better Communicator
6:45 - The Power of Prayer in Marriage
8:04 - Beyond the Surface
10:14 - Learning the Language of Love (and Conflict)
12:42 - Speaking Man 101 vs. Woman 101
14:35 - Navigating Resistance
16:47 - The Rarity of Marriage Guidance in Churches
17:58 - Don't Just Restore, Rebuild
18:54 - Laying a New Foundation
20:42 - The Ripple Effect
21:11 - The Holy Family and the Importance of Unity
21:30 - Living the Life of Christ in Marriage
22:32 - The Counter-Cultural Act of Serving Your Spouse
23:53 - Becoming a Student of Your Spouse
24:16 - Conflict is Inevitable, Handling It is Key
25:39 - Obedience and Trust
#MarriageAdvice #CommunicationIsKey #RelationshipGoals #LoveAndMarriage #HealthyRelationships
Have you ever felt like life is a maze that you canβt seem to navigate? π€·ββοΈ Parenting, relationships, spirituality, health - itβs all overwhelming and thereβs no clear map to guide you. πΊοΈ But what if there was? π€
Welcome to the βFamily Coachingβ podcast, where Gino and Julia help you navigate the complexities of life with ease and grace.
ποΈ We dive deep into the subtle nuances of relationships, offer advice for the joyous challenges of parenting, explore spirituality and provide practical tips for healthcare. ππ¨βπ©βπ§βπ¦
ππ Our approach is rooted in empathy and understanding, because let's face it, life is hard!
πͺ Tune into our podcast for a refreshing take on navigating life's most complex challenges. It's like having a secret weapon in your back pocket. π§π ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Join our community to start your transformation. Your journey to a fuller, more vibrant life is just a click away. π»πhttps://barbaro360community.com/ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ #educationforlife #familylife #parentingtips #relationshiptips #personalfinance #lifecoaching #personalgrowth #lifecoaching
35 episodes