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Being Seen on Purpose
Journal prompt: "What healing looks like—even when I can’t feel it—is…"
Witnessing redistributes weight. Not gone—carried together. Today we practice asking to be seen, cleanly and without apology.
A Flicker (Hope) — You’re allowed to be heard
Five quiet minutes. A nod. A text that lands. Hope isn’t a speech; it’s an accurate reflection without fixing.
To Rebuild (Healing) — The five-minute witnessing ask
Text: “Could you hold five minutes for me today? No fixing—just listening.”
Live/Call: “I don’t need solutions—just five minutes to be heard. Is now okay?”
If no one’s free: 3–5 min voice memo, a not-sent letter, or a 60-second mirror check (one feeling, one need, one next inch).
Take a Step (Becoming) — A boundary you’ll actually use
Draft one sentence for this week:
“I’m heading out now; I’ve met my limit.”
“I’m skipping this year, but I hope it’s meaningful for you.”
“Listening is all I need right now.”
Choose-your-energy menu:
Hollow (low): 5-4-3-2-1 grounding (see, touch, hear, smell, taste). Stop there.
Healing (medium): Send the five-minute ask—or schedule it. If no person, record a 3-minute memo.
Becoming (higher): Use your boundary once in a low-stakes moment.
Food for Thought Today:
Your story isn’t a public utility. Curate who gets access. Clarity is care. You don’t owe anyone a perfect explanation to deserve compassion; a simple “this is what I need” is enough. It’s also okay if the right listener isn’t available today—self-witnessing still counts, and choosing silence can be a boundary, not a failure. Keep practicing these small, clear asks until your body believes you’re safe to be heard.
Exhale. Keep what serves you; leave the rest. I’ll be here again tomorrow. 💜
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