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Key Takeaways:
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) helps reshape thoughts and beliefs.
- Personal trauma can significantly impact mental health and relationships. Your past and your trauma only defines you to the degree that you allow it to.
- Acknowledging your pain is the first step to healing.
Licensed mental health counselor Bianca Thomas, blends cognitive behavioural therapy with warmth, humor, and lived experience, showing how honest self-examination can move you from pretending to be okay to actually building a life that feels stable, meaningful, and yours. Bianca opens up about growing up in a strict, image-driven environment, and the relationship that compounded her pain. She explains how she recognized patterns consistent with borderline personality disorder and what changed when a business partner challenged her to do the real inner work.
Bianca speaks to the need for awareness, personal responsibility and getting the help we need. She emphasizes that we've all at one point fallen on the spectrum of various mental health disorders, due to the symptoms we generally tend to experience while dealing with life's challenges. We dig into stigma, speaking on why asking for help still feels risky, how shame keeps people stuck, and why labels describe clusters of human experiences rather than moral flaws. We conclude with a final takeaway that, you can’t control where you started, but you can choose the meaning you make from it and the behaviours you practice next.
All links to our guest's work and official site
Website ➡️ https://evolveventurestech.com
YouTube ➡️ @EvolvewithBianca
TikTok ➡️ https://www.tiktok.com/@evolvewithbianca
Instagram ➡️ https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithbianca/
Books Mentioned: The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness and Healing in a Toxic Culture, Dr. Gabor Maté with Daniel Maté
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Chapters
1. Warm Welcome And Laughter (00:00:00)
2. Naming The Unease We Avoid (00:08:20)
3. Meet Bianca: CBT And Mission (00:10:55)
4. Bianca’s Story Of Breaking And Growth (00:17:00)
5. What CBT Is And Isn’t (00:27:40)
6. Spotting When Life Isn’t Working (00:35:20)
7. “Too Broken To Change” Challenged (00:44:10)
8. Stigma, Judgment, And Asking For Help (00:53:10)
9. Borderline Personality Disorder Explained (01:00:20)
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