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Behind The Mask” brings Ryan Garland and Joe Roman into a candid breakdown of what it takes to operate at pace in private equity. Ryan outlines the operator mindset: answer the phone after five, stay mission-driven, protect the downside, and lead with compassion without compromising accountability. He opens up about divorce, blended family dynamics, and the pressure of capital markets, using hard-won lessons to separate givers from takers in teams. Expect a practical look at hiring (why résumés often mislead), building loyalty, navigating California employment law realities, and keeping culture strong when the world feels like it’s burning—rates, real estate, politics, crypto. Ryan explains why forgiveness is a performance tool, how faith and hope reduce leadership drag, and why selfless love creates peace at home (the fuel that sustains high performance at work). From father-son legacy to “blank canvas” resets after hitting bottom, this episode is a masterclass in turning setbacks into clarity, discipline, and repeatable results. Leaders, investors, and operators will leave with a human playbook for transparency, integrity, and execution—the real differentiators in real estate and private equity.
Chapters
1. Behind The Mask: Leadership, Love, And The Cost Of Carrying It All | Joe Roman E29 (00:00:00)
2. Setting The Stage With Joe (00:00:40)
3. Nine:10] Compassion, Standards, And Boundaries (00:01:20)
4. d:40] Hope, Forgiveness, And Closing (00:01:20)
5. Near-Death, Hustle, And Purpose (00:04:33)
6. Music, Quiet, And Finding Focus (00:09:03)
7. Faith, Divorce, And Hope Deferred (00:10:56)
8. Fear, Parenting, And Letting Go (00:19:04)
9. Marriage Stats, Loyalty, And Peace (00:26:27)
10. Trauma, Time, And Community Healing (00:31:47)
11. Givers, Takers, And Workplace Loyalty (00:44:30)
12. Forgiveness, Lawsuits, And Letting Go Of Money (00:52:29)
13. Hitting Bottom And Blank Canvas (01:01:22)
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