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“Out, Proud, and Healing: A Gay Man’s Empowered Response to Prostate Cancer” - PC-PEP Podcast Ep. 9

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In this powerful episode of the PC-PEP Podcast, we hear from Uli, a German-born man living in Canada, who bravely recounts his journey through prostate cancer as a gay man. From the shock of diagnosis to undergoing brachytherapy, hormone therapy, and external beam radiation, Uli candidly reflects on the emotional and physical toll—and the layers of silence surrounding men’s health and intimacy.
Uli’s story unfolds as one of profound transformation—from isolation to deep connection, from fear to empowerment. Through open conversations about masculinity, sexuality, vulnerability, and joy, he reminds us that healing is not linear, but deeply human. His story is a testament to the strength found in self-acceptance, community, and showing up for life—exactly as we are.
Key Messages of Inspiration and Empowerment for Men Diagnosed with Prostate Cancer:
1. You’re not alone—even if it feels like it.
Uli speaks about how isolating his diagnosis felt at first, especially as a gay man. But finding spaces like PC-PEP reminded him that connection is possible and healing is collective.
2. Healing starts with honesty—with yourself and others.
Uli’s turning point came when he began talking openly about his fears around sexuality, intimacy, and vulnerability. His message: don’t hide.
3. Speak. Others will meet you there.
It’s okay to grieve the losses—and still find joy.
Uli shares openly about the changes to his body, identity, and sense of masculinity. He also describes how new joy emerged from that grieving process, including deeper emotional intimacy and self-acceptance.
4. Showing up is powerful.
Uli didn't always feel brave—but he kept showing up. For his appointments, for his health, for this podcast. That’s courage. That’s power.
5. Your story matters—and might be the light someone else needs.
Uli’s participation is a gift to other men who might be quietly struggling. His willingness to share reminds us that every voice in the community counts.
🎧 Listen to the episode on Buzzsprout:
https://www.buzzsprout.com/2420283/
📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/XL0bBkR5puQ
🌐 Learn more about PC-PEP:
https://www.pcpep.org
For all forms of cancer go to CancerPEP.com.
Together, we are not just facing prostate cancer—we are transforming how we live beyond it.

EMPOWER YOURSELF!

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9 episodes

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In this powerful episode of the PC-PEP Podcast, we hear from Uli, a German-born man living in Canada, who bravely recounts his journey through prostate cancer as a gay man. From the shock of diagnosis to undergoing brachytherapy, hormone therapy, and external beam radiation, Uli candidly reflects on the emotional and physical toll—and the layers of silence surrounding men’s health and intimacy.
Uli’s story unfolds as one of profound transformation—from isolation to deep connection, from fear to empowerment. Through open conversations about masculinity, sexuality, vulnerability, and joy, he reminds us that healing is not linear, but deeply human. His story is a testament to the strength found in self-acceptance, community, and showing up for life—exactly as we are.
Key Messages of Inspiration and Empowerment for Men Diagnosed with Prostate Cancer:
1. You’re not alone—even if it feels like it.
Uli speaks about how isolating his diagnosis felt at first, especially as a gay man. But finding spaces like PC-PEP reminded him that connection is possible and healing is collective.
2. Healing starts with honesty—with yourself and others.
Uli’s turning point came when he began talking openly about his fears around sexuality, intimacy, and vulnerability. His message: don’t hide.
3. Speak. Others will meet you there.
It’s okay to grieve the losses—and still find joy.
Uli shares openly about the changes to his body, identity, and sense of masculinity. He also describes how new joy emerged from that grieving process, including deeper emotional intimacy and self-acceptance.
4. Showing up is powerful.
Uli didn't always feel brave—but he kept showing up. For his appointments, for his health, for this podcast. That’s courage. That’s power.
5. Your story matters—and might be the light someone else needs.
Uli’s participation is a gift to other men who might be quietly struggling. His willingness to share reminds us that every voice in the community counts.
🎧 Listen to the episode on Buzzsprout:
https://www.buzzsprout.com/2420283/
📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/XL0bBkR5puQ
🌐 Learn more about PC-PEP:
https://www.pcpep.org
For all forms of cancer go to CancerPEP.com.
Together, we are not just facing prostate cancer—we are transforming how we live beyond it.

EMPOWER YOURSELF!

  continue reading

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