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How Confidence Becomes Currency (When You Stop Waiting to Feel Ready)

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For years, I believed confidence would come after success. That once I had proof—once I’d achieved something significant—then I’d finally feel confident enough to do the thing I really wanted to do.

But here’s what I’ve learned through my own journey of building businesses, losing everything twice, and working with hundreds of midlife women: it actually works in reverse.

Confidence doesn’t come after success. It creates it.

In this episode, I’m sharing the raw, unfiltered story of how I rebuilt my jewellery business from nothing after losing my entire collection to fraud, moved countries multiple times, and discovered that confidence becomes currency when you realise you are the investment.

If you’ve been waiting to feel “ready enough” to start something new—a business, a creative project, a complete life reinvention—this episode will show you exactly why waiting for confidence actually keeps it away.

WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER IN THIS EPISODE:

* The confidence myth we’ve all been taught (and why it keeps you stuck in waiting mode)

* Why confidence is permission, not perfection—and how this shift changes everything

* My story of starting from nothing twice—losing my entire jewellery collection to fraud and rebuilding without loans or investors

* What “confidence as currency” actually means—and how it shows up in real life

* Why abundance responds to authenticity faster than effort—the energy shift that changes how life responds to you

* How to start building confidence through action—even when you’re terrified

* Three powerful questions to shift your relationship with readiness—and move from stuck to starting

KEY TAKEAWAY:

“Confidence doesn’t mean knowing how things will turn out. It means believing that whatever happens, you’ll handle it.”

Every risk you take, every time you choose yourself, every heartbreak you survive and rebuild from—they all build the kind of self-trust no bank can give you, no external validation can create, and no one can ever take away from you.

That’s the currency I’m talking about. And it’s worth more than any amount of money.

EPISODE TIMESTAMPS:

[00:00] Introduction: Confidence Becomes Currency [02:15] The Confidence Myth We’ve All Been Taught [05:30] Why Waiting for Confidence Keeps It Away [08:45] My Story: Enrolling in Goldsmithing Classes in Dutch [12:20] The Fraud That Took Everything—And What Happened Next [16:40] Starting From Nothing (Again)—Moving Countries and Rebuilding [20:15] What Confidence as Currency Actually Looks Like [24:30] How Opportunities Recognize You Faster When You Show Up [27:10] Why Abundance Responds to Authenticity Over Effort [30:45] If You’re Waiting to Feel Ready—The Midlife Reinvention Roadmap [34:20] Three Questions That Change Everything [38:15] Where Are You Still Hiding Your Light? [40:30] You’re Not Starting Over—You’re Starting Truer [42:00] Closing & How to Connect

FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:

📥 Download The Midlife Confidence Code (FREE) A powerful tool to help you start recognizing the patterns that keep you playing small—and how to shift them. → Get it here

READY TO GO DEEPER?

The Midlife Reinvention Roadmap — The complete 7-step system to move from uncertainty to clarity This self-paced program helps you:

* Identify what actually lights you up (not what you think should)

* Clear the blocks that keep you stuck in waiting mode

* Create a practical plan that works with your energy, not against it

* Build momentum through aligned action, even when you don’t feel ready

→ START TODAY!

RESOURCES & BOOKS MENTIONED:

By Beryl Dingemans:

* Breaking Free From The Mother Wound — Available on Amazon

Recommended Reading:

* The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks

* Daring Greatly by Brené Brown

* Year of Yes by Shonda Rhimes

* Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway by Susan Jeffers

* The Confidence Code by Katty Kay and Claire Shipman

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