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Unexpected moments can define our professional boundaries. After officiating a beautiful ceremony for Amanda and Tito, I found myself unexpectedly called upon to deliver the reception blessing—a task that had specifically been assigned to the bride's uncle. Three Jolly Rancher cocktails deep and with absolutely no preparation, I somehow managed to cobble together a meaningful blessing that incorporated Bob Dylan lyrics and brought the house down.
This pivotal experience transformed how I approach my role as a wedding officiant. While I once eagerly attended receptions as a young professional looking to network (and yes, enjoy free food and drinks), this unexpected spotlight moment forced me to reconsider where my professional responsibilities begin and end. The incident raises fascinating questions about vendor boundaries at weddings: When is it appropriate to have a drink? What happens when you're asked to perform duties outside your agreement? How do you maintain professionalism while still honoring the celebratory atmosphere?
The wedding industry presents unique challenges for setting boundaries. Unlike typical 9-to-5 jobs, weddings blur personal and professional lines in ways that can catch even experienced vendors off guard. Whether you're planning your own wedding or work in the industry, this story offers valuable insights about clear communication, setting expectations, and handling those inevitable unexpected moments that make each wedding uniquely memorable. And for those curious about that Jolly Rancher cocktail that played a supporting role in this tale—you might just find the recipe in our show notes!

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