In this episode of The WHY Matters Podcast, we unpack the unplanned year-long dry spell that reshaped our relationship - from hiking the Appalachian Trail in separate states to sharing a one-room hotel with our teenage son. Through candid stories and hard-won insights, we explore how intimacy evolves (or collapses) under extreme circumstances, and why physical connection is about far more than sex.

Drawing from our decade of full-time travel and unconventional living, we dissect the language of desire, the silent impacts of deprivation, and the creative ways we kept our bond alive - even when traditional romance felt impossible. Whether you’re navigating a dry spell, long-distance love, or just the daily chaos of family life, this episode offers a lifeline for staying connected when life gets in the way.

@02:18 Trail Separation – How distance changed our intimacy

@08:45 Tiny Space Reality – Sex life in one shared room with family

@14:22 Normalizing Dry Spells – No such thing as a perfect couple

@19:37 Sex & Science – How deprivation affects relationships

@25:51 Creative Solutions – Bathrooms, bread runs, and more

@31:06 Kids & Desire – Why we're open with our son

@36:44 Small Gestures – How we stayed connected (cheese > roses)

@42:15 Your Challenge – Break one intimacy barrier this week
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