Hi, I’m Bethany Bowyer Khan and this is Things I Learned from My Mother from Arcadian Revival, a podcast about creating home, community, and a deeper connection to nature and to one another.

What does home feel like to you? Is there a scent, sound, or season that instantly transports you to a familiar place? Does it pull at a longing feeling for something warm, or inviting?

For me home is a feeling…of love and acceptance, of empathy and understanding. It is a place of comfort and ease where we can feel inspired, can grow, and can be the best versions of ourselves. It is a place where lessons from the past help instill values for today. I connect to home through my own experiences of the smell of breakfast thoughtfully being made before I wake or the smell of the fresh summer air breezing through the windows of our century home filled with heirlooms and books where I grew up, I feel home through gardening, with my hands feeling the coolness of the earth between my fingers, of a hug, a shared glass of iced to after an afternoon of yard work, or the warmth of a familiar quilt wrapped around me while listening to a thunderstorm from the comfort of a porch swing on a summer evening. It’s the voices calling my name, laughter, dancing around our kitchen, reading stories at bedtime, and a million other things.

At its core it’s about creating a place that is welcoming, while keeping in mind that it is a microcosm of the greater global community in which we live in and a just a piece of the larger natural world in which we call home.

Here we’ll explore answers to this question through generational wisdom, shared perspectives, and from Mother Nature herself.

Whether you’re here for something you learned from your mother (or father) or you’re a parent yourself or you’re just looking for that warm feeling from a guiding voice we hope you’ll find it here.

This episode of Things I Learned from My Mother is rooted in the garden, but really, it’s about so much more.

We sat down at the kitchen table to talk about how gardening has been a place of solace, restoration, and quiet discovery across generations. It’s where we’ve processed grief, reconnected with joy, and found our footing in seasons of change and growth.

The episode, called 'Living Heirlooms | Lessons Learned from the Garden', opens with my mom and me reflecting on what we’ve learned while kneeling in the dirt together—and how planting became a way to keep going, a way of building home, and a quiet act of hope.

These conversations, filmed around our kitchen table where we’ve sown seeds, arranged wreaths, made tea, told stories, played games, and shared meals, are where something shifts. The table holds more than just our hands—it holds memory, lineage, and the kind of truths that only come out when there’s a bloom in a vase and a kettle on the stove.

If you’ve ever turned to your garden when you didn’t have the words, or if you grew up learning from someone who did, this episode is for you.