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What happens when past trauma collides with present relationships? In this raw, unfiltered conversation, we journey through the complex terrain of emotional availability, betrayal, and healing with our Special Guest Julia (@Jul_to_the_yah), who brings a refreshingly honest perspective to the table.
Julia shares her experience working with special needs students, revealing how this challenging work has given her unique insights into patience & human connection. The discussion takes a vulnerable turn as she opens up about childhood trauma that literally rewired her brain, affecting her memory and relationship patterns. It's a powerful reminder that our earliest experiences shape not just our psychology, but our neurology as well.
The conversation weaves through provocative territory – the double standards in dating, why some find it difficult to remain faithful, & the protective mechanism of emotional detachment. "Cheating has everything to do with the other person and nothing to do with you," Julia states in what becomes one of the episode's most standout moments. This perspective liberates those who've shouldered blame for their partner's betrayals.
We explore the delicate balance between vulnerability & self-protection, particularly after heartbreak. Julia's candid accounts of navigating the dating world after years of being single reveal universal truths about trust, intuition, and healing. Her experience dating both younger & significantly older men challenges assumptions about emotional maturity and age.
Whether you're currently healing from relationship trauma, trying to understand your patterns, or simply looking to develop healthier connections, this conversation offers transformative insights about accountability, communication, & the courage to face yourself. As Julia directly reminds us in the closing moments: "Know your worth. If you feel something is off in a relationship, 100% of the time your intuition is right."