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From sneaking into national conferences to fighting for trans liberation in rural Idaho, Bonnie Violet and Pacey break down what it means to resist, speak truth, and survive when your existence is political. This episode isn’t cute—it’s critical.

What happens when national LGBTQ2SIA+ leaders underestimate rural resistance? When World Pride gets shut down by police but queers keep dancing in the streets? When you're told your life isn’t under threat, even as laws strip your rights away?

In this raw and urgent episode of Trans Joy Boise, hosts Bonnie Violet and Pacey share personal reflections from Washington, D.C., where Idaho’s trans activists were both underestimated and spotlighted at the Human Rights Conference. From affirming moments with icons like Raquel Willis to the deep vulnerability of being dismissed by those in power, we explore what it’s like to be trans in the trenches—especially in so-called "flyover" states.

You’ll hear:

• How Bonnie snuck into national conversations to make trans Idaho visible
• Why people calling Idaho “cute” is dangerous, not flattering
• The nervous system toll of constant vigilance in anti-trans America
• How World Pride DC’s protest roots re-emerged under pressure
• The spiritual and emotional impact of showing up, even when you're not invited
• Bi-erasure in media, pop culture’s shifting queerness, and burnout
• Why Pride must be both a celebration and a protest at Canyon County Pride

This is a love letter to those doing the work without credit or comfort—and a call-out to those still stuck in rainbow-washed apathy.

✨ Whether you’re on the streets, in the pews, or behind the mic—this episode is for you. Because we’re not here for cute anymore. We’re here for power.

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