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Putting the Dollhouse Back Together: Beverly Armento on Trauma, Forgiveness, and Finding Voice

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“We spend so much of our life trying to put the pieces back in the dollhouse… the furniture changes, the people change.” — Beverly Jean Armento

In this emotional episode of Uncorking a Story, Michael Carlon sits down with author and educator Beverly Jean Armento to discuss her powerful memoir, Seeing Eye Girl. Beverly reflects on a childhood marked by violence, secrecy, and trauma—and how the love of teachers, a resilient spirit, and the act of writing helped her reclaim her story. Now in her 80s and still writing, Beverly proves it’s never too late to transform pain into purpose.

Key Themes:

  1. The Broken Dollhouse as a Metaphor for Trauma: Beverly recounts a pivotal childhood moment—the night her family imploded—through the lens of a shattered dollhouse. That image would become a central metaphor for the chaos and damage wrought by familial dysfunction.
  2. The Silent Strength of “Strong Beverly”: For decades, Beverly coped with her trauma by compartmentalizing—presenting as competent and successful on the outside while suppressing her pain. It wasn’t until much later that “Strong Beverly” made room for healing.
  3. Teachers as Lifelines: Beverly credits a string of devoted educators—her “angel teachers”—with being her saving grace. Each one provided a safe space, encouragement, and belief in her when her home life did not.
  4. The Power and Pain of Memoir Writing: It wasn’t until retirement that Beverly began to write her story. Through guided prompts and emotional breakthroughs, she discovered that telling the truth—however painful—was both a burden and a liberation.
  5. The Essential Role of Forgiveness: Beverly’s decision to forgive her mother came during a profound therapy exercise involving her mother’s ashes and a conversation between “little Beverly” and her imagined mother. That moment lifted a lifelong weight.
  6. Legacy, Perspective, and the Late Blooming Artist: Beverly published Seeing Eye Girl at 81 and is already working on a follow-up. With age came perspective, and with perspective came compassion—for herself, her parents, and her past.
  7. Trauma is Timeless—So is Hope: While her story takes place decades ago, the issues of abuse, resilience, and the search for meaning remain relevant. Her memoir speaks not only for herself but for anyone who has grown up in chaos and fought their way to clarity.

Buy Seeing Eye Girl

Amazon: https://amzn.to/3Yexgrg

Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9781647423919

Connect with Beverly

Website: www.beverlyarmentoauthor.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@beverlyarmento8430

Connect with Mike

Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSvS4fuG3L1JMZeOyHvfk_g

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/uncorkingastory/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory

Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/uncorking-a-story/

If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

#UncorkingAStory #MemoirMonday #TraumaRecovery #AuthorInterview #ChildhoodResilience #BeverlyArmento #SeeingEyeGirl #ForgivenessJourney #WritersOfInstagram #BookPodcast

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“We spend so much of our life trying to put the pieces back in the dollhouse… the furniture changes, the people change.” — Beverly Jean Armento

In this emotional episode of Uncorking a Story, Michael Carlon sits down with author and educator Beverly Jean Armento to discuss her powerful memoir, Seeing Eye Girl. Beverly reflects on a childhood marked by violence, secrecy, and trauma—and how the love of teachers, a resilient spirit, and the act of writing helped her reclaim her story. Now in her 80s and still writing, Beverly proves it’s never too late to transform pain into purpose.

Key Themes:

  1. The Broken Dollhouse as a Metaphor for Trauma: Beverly recounts a pivotal childhood moment—the night her family imploded—through the lens of a shattered dollhouse. That image would become a central metaphor for the chaos and damage wrought by familial dysfunction.
  2. The Silent Strength of “Strong Beverly”: For decades, Beverly coped with her trauma by compartmentalizing—presenting as competent and successful on the outside while suppressing her pain. It wasn’t until much later that “Strong Beverly” made room for healing.
  3. Teachers as Lifelines: Beverly credits a string of devoted educators—her “angel teachers”—with being her saving grace. Each one provided a safe space, encouragement, and belief in her when her home life did not.
  4. The Power and Pain of Memoir Writing: It wasn’t until retirement that Beverly began to write her story. Through guided prompts and emotional breakthroughs, she discovered that telling the truth—however painful—was both a burden and a liberation.
  5. The Essential Role of Forgiveness: Beverly’s decision to forgive her mother came during a profound therapy exercise involving her mother’s ashes and a conversation between “little Beverly” and her imagined mother. That moment lifted a lifelong weight.
  6. Legacy, Perspective, and the Late Blooming Artist: Beverly published Seeing Eye Girl at 81 and is already working on a follow-up. With age came perspective, and with perspective came compassion—for herself, her parents, and her past.
  7. Trauma is Timeless—So is Hope: While her story takes place decades ago, the issues of abuse, resilience, and the search for meaning remain relevant. Her memoir speaks not only for herself but for anyone who has grown up in chaos and fought their way to clarity.

Buy Seeing Eye Girl

Amazon: https://amzn.to/3Yexgrg

Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9781647423919

Connect with Beverly

Website: www.beverlyarmentoauthor.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@beverlyarmento8430

Connect with Mike

Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSvS4fuG3L1JMZeOyHvfk_g

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/uncorkingastory/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory

Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/uncorking-a-story/

If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

#UncorkingAStory #MemoirMonday #TraumaRecovery #AuthorInterview #ChildhoodResilience #BeverlyArmento #SeeingEyeGirl #ForgivenessJourney #WritersOfInstagram #BookPodcast

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