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In this episode, Kodie and Kay get very real about what it feels like to look around in your 30s and realize everyone else’s life has followed the “traditional” timeline… while yours hasn’t.

Sparked by Kelsea Ballerini’s new EP and the songs “I Sit in Parks” and “The Revisionist,” the girls dive into shrinking families vs growing families, biological clocks, and that weird ache of wondering, “Am I behind… or is my path just different?”

We talk about being the friend who has kids and a “broken” family vs being the friend who never had the family at all, spending holidays single, and the quiet loneliness of sitting in a big house by yourself on Christmas night. We also get into alternate timelines (aka the multiverse of “what ifs”), revising your life in real time, and why there’s zero award for staying in a relationship past its expiration date.

If you’ve ever felt “behind,” questioned your choices, or stayed way too long in something that wasn’t working… this one’s for you. 🖤

Hit play if you’re ready to:

• Feel seen if you’re 28–35 and still haven’t hit the “marriage + babies” milestones
• Hear both sides: having kids young and never having a family (yet)
• Validate how brutal holidays can feel when you’re single or co-parenting
• Reflect on the “what if” timelines you replay in your head
• Learn why your gut feeling is right 1000% of the time
• Get the reminder that you don’t get a trophy for staying too long

🔔 New here? The Unengaged Podcast is two best friends, real stories, no producers, no filter. Just honest conversations about love, loss, healing, timelines, and building a life that actually feels good.

✨ Listen now and then tell us: what’s one “revision” you’re ready to make in your own life?

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