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Sleep shouldn’t demand that parents ignore their instincts. We sit down with Emma Gawne, a certified sleep coach and founder of Help Baby Sleep, to unpack a humane, evidence-based approach that respects infant biology, attachment, and the realities of family life. Emma’s personal journey through poor guidance and postnatal depression led her to build a model that moves beyond quick fixes and one-size-fits-all programmes, offering nuanced support that helps families find rest, rhythm, and confidence.
Across our conversation, Emma explains why “biological best” sleep doesn’t always mean long, uninterrupted stretches—and why easy night feeds and calm resettles matter more than chasing milestones. We dive into the airway–sleep connection, a crucial yet under-discussed factor in infant rest. Mouth breathing, snoring, reflux symptoms, and feeding challenges can signal upstream issues that fragment sleep; Emma collaborates with ENTs, paediatric dentists, lactation consultants, and paediatric osteopaths to address root causes. She also shares how parental nervous system regulation shapes a baby’s ability to settle, and why co-regulation beats rigid tactics when everyone is exhausted.
We explore changing parenting culture—more fathers on shared parental leave, less appetite for cry-it-out—while naming a persistent mismatch: expectations still mirror sleep training goals. Emma offers practical ways to make nights sustainable without abandoning responsiveness, from timing tweaks to sensory profiles and feeding nuances, and reflects on the realities of marketing in a world that rewards quick promises. If you’ve “tried everything,” this conversation reframes the problem and shows how tailored, collaborative care creates lasting change.
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👤 Guest Biography
Emma Gawne is a certified holistic sleep coach and founder of Help Baby Sleep, a UK-based practice offering evidence-based, attachment-focused sleep support for families. Drawing from a personal journey through postnatal depression and a professional background shaped by neuroscience, Emma helps parents build confidence, find rest, and make sustainable sleep choices that align with their baby’s developmental needs. Her work centers on education, emotional attunement, and empowering families without resorting to quick fixes or rigid sleep training.
Verified Contact Links:
- 🌐 Website: https://helpbabysleep.co.uk
- 📸 Instagram: @helpbabysleep
- 📘 Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/Helpbabysleepuk#
- Email: [email protected]
- 📞 07899955647
Chapters
1. Meet Emma And Her Mission (00:00:00)
2. From Personal Struggle To Coaching (00:00:50)
3. Training, Evidence And Collaboration (00:04:30)
4. Moving Beyond The Quick Fix (00:09:00)
5. Airway Health And Sleep Red Flags (00:12:00)
6. Day-To-Day Work And Outreach (00:17:30)
7. Shifts In Parenting And Expectations (00:21:00)
8. Social Media And Marketing Realities (00:25:40)
9. Helping Parents Who Tried Everything (00:28:20)
10. Limits, Ethics And Sustainable Change (00:32:00)
11. Growth, Community And Future Plans (00:35:00)
12. Closing Thanks And Reflections (00:37:50)
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