Where Is The Instruction Manual For Being A Mother?! With Shawna Lander
We’re Doing Great | A Podcast for Imperfect Parents by Pok Pok
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What changes when you stop performing “good parenting” for others and focus on what works for your family?
In this episode, Melissa and Esther talk with prolific content creator Shawna Lander about the messy, funny, and deeply human realities of becoming a mom. Get ready to unpack how becoming a mother transformed Shawna’s identity and career, leading her to write hilarious and honest skits about the real-life struggles no one prepares you for.
Shawna Lander is the hilarious mind behind the “Shawnaverse,” where her sharp, heartfelt mom-skits help parents feel seen in all their messy glory. She’s an actor, writer, mom, and cancer survivor.
What you’ll learn in this episode:
(01:37) Why judgment shows up everywhere in parenting and how to recognize it without letting it define you.
(06:47) How seeing your child as a whole human changes the way you handle tough moments.
(09:20) Why your child’s “inconvenient” behavior might actually be healthy self-advocacy.
(12:18) How understanding someone’s upbringing can completely shift how you interpret their parenting style.
(15:45) Why encouraging autonomy in young kids sets them up for stronger self-identity later on.
(18:12) How to parent through major life challenges.
(27:09) What happens when parenting roles shift.
(35:21) Why protecting kids from every hardship can backfire.
Thank you to Shawna Lander for being on our show!
Follow Shawna: https://www.instagram.com/shawnathemom and https://www.tiktok.com/@shawnathemom and https://www.youtube.com/@shawnathemom.
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We’re Doing Great is the parenting podcast that helps you navigate the hard stuff, savor the good stuff, and remember you’re not alone. Hosts and moms, Melissa Cash and Esther Huybreghts, team up with experts to share practical guidance on how to stay anchored when the waters get rough. Join us on the frontlines of modern parenting as we explore what it really means to be good at the hardest job on earth.
Pok Pok is on a mission to help raise the next generation of creative thinkers through non-addictive, digital tools that help them think outside the box and learn through play.
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This episode was produced by Story On Media: https://www.storyon.co/
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