Amy sits down with Trevor Hanson, coach and founder of The Art of Healing and the Secure Self Club, to unpack the power of attachment theory and how it shapes our relationships. Trevor explains the differences between secure, anxious, and avoidant attachment styles—and why understanding your patterns can transform the way you love, communicate, and connect.

Trevor shares practical tools for breaking free from people-pleasing, over-apologizing, and shutting down, including his "TEMPO" framework for mapping your attachment cycle. You’ll learn how self-compassion and daily “attachment skills” can help you create the emotional safety you’ve been missing and build healthier, more connected relationships.

If you’ve ever wondered why you get defensive, struggle with conflict, or repeat the same painful patterns in love, this conversation will give you both clarity and hope.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• What attachment theory is and how it shapes your relationships

• Why most relationship conflict comes from insecurity

• Practical strategies to move from anxious attachment to secure connection

Here's where you can find Trevor:

• Follow Trevor on Instagram: @theartofhealingbytrevor

• artofhealingbytrevor.com

• Trevor's free seminar From Anxious to Secure

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