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Mortality feels different when you’re sitting beside a parent and waiting for the breath that doesn’t return. In this call, we stay close to that moment—not with big theories or tidy comfort, but with the real stuff: complicated love, sudden anger, the guilt that shows up long after it’s “too late,” and the small rituals we use to get ourselves through the night.

He talks about a fractured relationship, the final hours in the hospital, and the split-second when a kind nurse became the target of blame. From there, the conversation widens into the quieter parts of grief—how guilt can rewrite reality, why it hangs on longer than we expect, and how a little compassion for ourselves can change the shape of it.

We also talk about the practical side of death that most people avoid: doctors bringing up end-of-life plans, families dodging hard conversations, and what it means to leave behind a simple manual so the people we love don’t have to untangle everything alone. (Yes, even down to the Costco casket.)

Threaded through all of this is a deeper question: what does it mean to feel accomplished before our time runs out? For him, it's still unanswered—and maybe that’s the point. We build our worldview brick by brick: faith, science, memory, experience. Some bricks hold more weight than others, but together they’re what keep us standing.

Book Recommendation: Children of Time by Adrian Tchaikovsky

If you’d like to watch this conversation instead of just listening, you can find the video version on YouTube.

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Chapters

1. #38 - The Other G-Word No One Wants to Talk About (00:00:00)

2. Sponsor: The Death Deck (00:00:55)

3. Episode Intro (00:01:32)

4. The Call Begins (00:04:03)

5. Why Talk About Death (00:04:47)

6. What do you think happens when we die? (00:08:01)

7. A Father’s Final Days (00:12:06)

8. Guilt, Anger, And Meaning (00:17:58)

9. End‑Of‑Life Planning Reality Check (00:19:38)

10. Unfinished Conversations And Letting Go (00:25:01)

11. What Counts As A Life Accomplished (00:35:30)

12. Closing Thoughts (00:38:08)

13. Voicemail (00:39:26)

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