This week, I’m joined by Dr. Margo Lowy: psychotherapist, maternal mental health expert, and author of Maternal Ambivalence: The Loving Moments and Bitter Truths of Motherhood. Our conversation dives deep into the emotional duality of motherhood, the fierce love and joy, alongside resentment, guilt, rage, and the quiet grief we often feel but rarely speak about.

Dr. Lowy beautifully introduces the concept of maternal ambivalence: the ability to hold both light and dark feelings in motherhood without shame. Together, we unpack how motherhood is messy, interrupted, and imperfect, and how in that mess, there’s profound beauty. We talk about societal pressure, the curated perfection of social media, and how to begin offering ourselves the grace and permission we extend so easily to others.

As a mom of three, I found so much comfort and clarity in this reminder: we don’t have to love every moment to love our children deeply. The meltdowns, the guilt, and the need for space are all part of the story.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the contradiction of motherhood or questioned your enoughness, you’re not alone in this. I hope this episode reminds you that your feelings are valid, and that there’s room for all of them. Don’t forget to share your reflections with me on Instagram or leave a review so other moms know they’re not alone in what they’re feeling too.

Connect with Dr. Margo Lowy
Website: https://drmargolowy.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drmargolowy

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