Welcome to The Femme Cast—the podcast for women who are truly ready to break free from toxic relationship cycles, choose themselves, and become a magnet for the love they deserve. I’m Maria — Master Energy Healer, Radical Self-Love Leader, and Relationship Mentor. I work with the women who are cycle breakers, grid shakers, and truth layers — the brave souls who came here to dismantle the inherited beliefs that told them they had to chase love, prove their worth, and beg to be chosen. I help ...
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Why You’re Addicted to Emotionally Unavailable Love (And How to Break the Cycle for Good)
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30:30What if I told you that the pattern you call “bad luck in love” is actually a trauma response in disguise? In this soul-baring episode of The Femme Cast, I take you into the raw, unfiltered moment that shattered my illusions about love — the night I found myself on the floor, begging someone to love me. Not because he was worth it. But because, dee…
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The Cringe-Worthy Moment That Changed Everything | My Breaking Point, Begging for Love, and Finally Choosing Me
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30:03We all have that one moment we’ve buried deep. The one that creeps back in at 2 a.m., leaving a pit in your stomach. The moment you swore you’d never tell a soul. This is mine. In this raw, unfiltered episode of The Femme Cast, I take you back to the moment I found myself on the floor, crying and begging a man to love me—a man I knew, deep down, wa…
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The Lie of Positivity + The Feminine Superpower That Was Kept From Us
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40:07We’ve been told to just think positive. To manifest through our mindset. To smile through the ache. But what if the very emotions you've been taught to suppress... are actually your greatest source of power? In this raw and revolutionary episode of The Femme Cast, I’m finally sharing the story I promised I would—the one about the silent meditation …
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The Power of Walking Away | What You Want Can’t Come In Until You Let Go of What You Don’t
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23:28We stay too long. We hold on too tight. And sometimes, we love the potential more than the person in front of us. In this soul-baring episode of The Femme Cast, I open up about the terrifying — and ultimately liberating — moment I realized I was clinging to a relationship that no longer aligned with my truth. Not because I didn’t know better… but b…
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The 7-Year Breakup That Changed Everything | Why Choosing Myself Was the Deepest Love Story of All
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33:13It hit me like a lightning bolt: "That’s it. I’m done. I have nothing left to give." That moment marked the end of chasing, shape-shifting, and settling. What I thought would be a short break from dating spiraled into a seven-year relationship hiatus—not out of bitterness, but out of something far more sacred: a call to come home to myself. In this…
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From Breakdown to Breakthrough: The Night My Sacred Reclamation Method Was Born on a Stormy Beach in Thailand
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36:32What if the chaos you're resisting is actually the medicine your soul's been asking for? In this raw, soul-cracking episode of The Femme Cast, I take you behind the scenes of a moment that changed everything—the night I was trapped by a tropical storm on a remote beach in Thailand, no way out, and nowhere to hide… not even from myself. Cut off from…
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Sacred Rebellion: Finding the Courage to Do the Unpleasing Thing and Finding Yourself In the Process
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29:04What if the most selfless act you could take… is the one that disappoints everyone else? If you’ve been conditioned to believe that love is earned through over-giving, self-sacrifice, and constantly pleasing others—this episode of The Femme Cast might shake something deep within you. I know, because for most of my life, I was the woman who believed…
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Stop People-Pleasing, Start Living | Break the Generational Pattern and Awaken the Life You Didn’t Know You Were Meant For
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39:07What if the very behaviors we were praised for—being “nice,” giving endlessly, and putting everyone else first—are the same ones keeping us disconnected from our power, our purpose, and the love we truly deserve? In this unapologetically honest and soul-stirring episode of The Femme Cast, I go way deeper than just toxic relationships and surface-le…
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4 Relationship Shifts That Changed Everything For Me (And Might Just Save You Years of Heartache)
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36:02Have you ever wondered why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners, draining situationships, or friendships that leave you feeling unseen—even though you’ve been doing so much inner work? In this episode of The Femme Cast, I’m taking you deep into the four relationship shifts that completely transformed my love life, my friendships, an…
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When Your Soul Says "No More" and Why You're Feeling Resistance to Everything Right Now
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39:45Have you been feeling an overwhelming resistance to the very life you’ve worked so hard to build? You're not alone—and it’s not just burnout. In this raw, soul-stirring episode of The Femme Cast, I’m pulling back the curtain on a collective uprising happening in women’s bodies, minds, and spirits—a full-body no more to the self-sacrificing systems …
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The Quiet Reset: Breaking Generational Cycles, Healing Ancestral Wounds & Becoming Who You Were Meant to Be
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38:48If you’ve been feeling deeply exhausted, disoriented, and like you don’t recognize yourself lately — you’re not alone. I’ve been feeling it too. In this episode of The Femme Cast, I’m sharing a raw, unscripted, channeled message about what I believe is really going on beneath the surface. So many of us are going through what I’m calling a “quiet re…
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How People-Pleasing Secretly Sabotages Your Life | 3 Hidden Ways You're Losing Yourself Without Even Realizing It
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34:58Have you ever driven somewhere and realized you don't have a single clue how you got there? That’s exactly how people pleasing can steer your life — silently, unconsciously — until one day you wake up wondering, "How the hell did I get here?" In today’s episode of The Femme Cast, I’m diving deep into the invisible but massive impact people pleasing…
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You’re Not Broken—The Relationship Pattern That Is Meant to Heal You and Wake You Up
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20:50Have you ever found yourself obsessively drawn to someone you knew wasn’t right for you—and then judged yourself for it? This episode of The Femme Cast is about to blow the lid off what attraction really means. The truth is: attraction isn't random. It’s coded into your spiritual DNA as a divine mechanism for healing and evolution. Those magnetic p…
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Alone But Not Lonely | Why Some of Your Healing Must Happen in Isolation
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22:27TRIGGER WARNING: This is the advice I avoided for YEARS because I knew it would force me to face every insecurity I had. But the truth? It was the ONLY thing that finally broke the cycle of toxic relationships and made me a magnet for healthy, loving relationships. If you keep attracting the same emotionally unavailable partners—the ghosters, the b…
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How to Handle Ghosting Without Losing Your Self-Worth (The Truth About Being Truly Unbothered vs. Just Pretending)
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19:56Ghosting can feel like a punch to the gut—leaving you questioning what went wrong and spiraling into self-doubt. But here’s the thing: your energy is too valuable to waste on someone who can't communicate with respect. In this episode of The Femme Cast, I challenge the common advice to "play it cool" when a ghoster comes crawling back. True empower…
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The Father Wound: How Chasing His Love Kept Me Chase Emotionally Unavailable Men
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30:33Why do we chase after people who can’t fully love us back? The answer runs deeper than we think. In this powerful episode of The Femme Cast, I take you inside my personal journey—how a childhood spent longing to hear “I love you” from my father unknowingly shaped my adult relationships. Every emotionally unavailable man I chased was a reflection of…
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Why Chasing Love Pushes It Further Away (And What To Do Instead)
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24:09Have you ever felt like the harder you chase love, the further it seems to run from you? Like every time you try to prove your worth, convince someone to choose you, or hold on tighter, they only slip further away? And faster. In this episode of The Femme Cast, we’re diving deep into the energetics of chasing, why it never works, and how this patte…
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From Breakup to Breakthrough: The Lessons Hidden in Heartbreak and Opening Yourself Up To Love Again
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31:05Every relationship, whether fleeting or long-term, leaves a mark. Some teach us what we don’t want, while others reveal what we truly desire. But if we don’t pause to reflect, we risk repeating toxic cycles and attracting the same emotionally unavailable partners. In this episode of The Femme Cast, we’re diving deep into the lessons our past relati…
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The Harsh Truth About Being Cheated On No One Talks About
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32:32You think you know what it feels like to be cheated on, and what you would do—until it happens to you. It’s not just about the betrayal. It’s the gut-wrenching self-doubt, the shame, the questions that haunt you at 2 AM: Was I not enough? Is she better than me? Does it feel better with her? I'm such an idiot, how did I not see it? And the worst par…
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The Biggest Mistake I Made in Love: Trusting Him Over Myself
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30:53Have you ever silenced your own intuition for the sake of love? Have you put more trust in someone else’s words than in the quiet knowing within you—only to watch it all fall apart? In this episode of The Femme Cast, I open up about the heartbreaking moment I realized I had given away my power, trusting him over myself, and the deep unraveling that…
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There’s a kind of betrayal that doesn’t just break you—it slowly erodes you, piece by piece, until one day, you don’t even recognize yourself anymore. And you most definitely can’t trust yourself. That was me. I lost myself trying to hold on to something that was never real. I stayed in cycles of deception, gaslighting, and self-abandonment, convin…
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How I’m Always Challenging The Story That I’m Not Enough To Be Loved Fully
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30:39Have you ever felt like you weren’t enough to be fully loved? Like no matter what you did, you always found yourself settling for less than you truly deserve—just to feel wanted? In this deeply personal episode of The Femme Cast, I open up about my own struggle with self-worth and the old story that kept me trapped in patterns of rushing into relat…
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How I Learned to Attract a Better Partner (The Next Time & Every Time)
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42:38Ever found yourself swearing that next time will be different, only to attract the same emotionally unavailable partner—or worse? If you’ve just broken up, are already looking for the next one, or find yourself deep in yet another hot mess, this episode is for you. On this episode of The Femme Cast I’m pulling back the curtain on my own patterns—wh…
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How to Take Your Power Back & Create the Best Possible Outcomes (Moving Through the Storm, Part 5)
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16:11We’ve made it to the final episode of our 5-part series here on The Femme Cast, called Moving Through the Storms, Upheavals and Massive Change, where I’m sharing the exact spiritual tools I use to navigate uncertainty, fear, and life’s biggest challenges with grace and personal power. Divorce, heartbreak, loss of a home, loss of a job, living on ov…
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Praying for a New Perspective & Shifting Fear Into Faith (Moving Through the Storm, Part 4)
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12:34We’re deep into our 5-part series here on The Femme Cast, called Moving Through the Storms, Upheavals and Massive Change, where I’m sharing the exact spiritual tools I use to navigate uncertainty, fear, and life’s biggest challenges with grace and personal power. Divorce, heartbreak, loss of a home, loss of a job, living on overdraft for what felt …
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Mindset Shifts for Navigating Uncertainty & Embracing Growth (Moving Through the Storm, Part 3)
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12:13This is part 3 of our 5-part series here in The Femme Cast, called Moving Through the Storms, Upheavals and Massive Change, where I’m sharing the exact spiritual tools I use to navigate uncertainty, fear, and life’s biggest challenges with grace and personal power. Divorce, heartbreak, loss of a home, loss of a job, living on overdraft for what fel…
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The Power of Surrender, Letting Go of What You Can’t Control & Reclaiming Your Peace (Moving Through the Storm, Part 2)
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15:46Welcome back to The Femme Cast. This is part 2 of our 5-part series called Moving Through the Storms, Upheavals and Massive Change, where I’m sharing the exact spiritual tools I use to navigate uncertainty, fear, and life’s biggest challenges with grace and personal power. Divorce, heartbreak, loss of a home, loss of a job, living on overdraft for …
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Sacred Reclamation Method™ & How I Move Through Difficult Emotions Without Getting Stuck (Moving Through the Storm, Part 1)
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29:01Today on The Femme Cast, we’re kicking off a powerful 5-part series called Moving Through the Storms, Upheavals and Massive Change, where I’m sharing the exact spiritual tools I use to navigate uncertainty, fear, and life’s biggest challenges with grace and personal power. Divorce, heartbreak, loss of a home, loss of a job, living on overdraft for …
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The Relationship Void: Navigating Loneliness, Letting Go, and Finding Yourself
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31:16In this raw and heartfelt episode of The Femme Cast, I dive into the often-overlooked space I call the "relationship void"—that limbo between letting go of toxic relationships and stepping into something new. I share my personal journey of breaking free from unaligned connections, confronting my biggest trigger—loneliness—and learning to use this t…
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The 5 Shifts I Made to Attract Healthy Love (After 15 Years of being Lied to Cheated On)
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45:03In this episode of The Femme Cast, I share my deeply personal journey of healing, self-discovery, and transformation after a 15-year toxic relationship where I was repeatedly lied to and cheated on, and then of course...made to believe it was all in my head. If you’ve ever felt exhausted by toxic dynamics or emotionally unavailable partners, this…
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Breaking Free from Over-Giving: How Prioritizing Your Needs Can Transform Your Relationships
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38:00I can still remember the day I hit rock bottom with over-giving. I was with one of my exes, and I had run myself so ragged that my body felt like it was falling apart. Inflammation coursed through me—eczema, rashes, joint aches, gluten intolerances. My emotional well-being? Stuffed so far down it was almost unrecognizable. I told myself that if I j…
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Why I Chose Myself Over Love: My Thoughts On Navigating Alignment, Breakups, And Manifesting Your Dream Life And Relationship
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38:55Are you staying in a relationship that you know isn't right for you, just because it’s “good enough”? What if the most loving thing you could do for yourself—and them—is to walk away? Would you? In this episode of The Femme Cast, I share the shocking truth about why manifesting love sometimes means manifesting a breakup. Join me as I dive into the …
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How To Close Out One Year & Set Powerful Intentions For The Next (My Personal Anti-Resolution Process)
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51:462024 was a shit show, no doubt. But for me, it was also a year of transformation, healing, and growth. In this episode of The Femme Cast, I’m sharing how I navigated the hot mess that was 2024, made peace with the chaos, and turned it all into fuel for an even more powerful 2025. This isn’t your typical New Year’s resolution talk—this is about clos…
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Giving Too Much, Getting Too Little: How to Stop Losing Yourself For Love
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40:06Have you ever poured everything into a relationship, hoping it would bring you closer to the love you deserve, only to feel drained, unseen, and unappreciated? Wondering why your efforts aren’t reciprocated? What if the secret to the healthy, loving relationship you crave starts with choosing you? In this heartfelt and empowering episode of The Fem…
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The Holiday Thrive Guide For Singles, Mingles & Hot Mess Entanglements | And Why The Holidays Are The Best (And Worst) Time To Be Single
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53:01The holidays are here, and while the world screams coupledom with twinkling lights, mistletoe, and those Starbucks red cups, being single can feel like a one-way ticket to Lonelyville. But what if this season could be your time to thrive? In this episode of The Femme Cast, I’m breaking down the bittersweet highs and lows of being single during the …
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The Curse Of The Fiercely Independent Woman | Wanting Love But Pushing It Away And Yet Still Wondering If It Will Ever Happen
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45:22Have you ever found yourself fiercely independent yet deeply longing for love, only to push it away when it comes close? In this episode of The Femme Cast, I’m sharing my personal journey of breaking free from the painful patterns of toxic codependency, people-pleasing, and fearful avoidance—patterns that kept me stuck in a cycle of wanting love bu…
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Rewriting Your Love Story | Transforming Old Narratives Into New Relationship Realities
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38:11In this episode of The Femme Cast, we’re diving deep into the art of rewriting your love story by transforming old, limiting beliefs into empowering new narratives that align with the love you truly deserve. We’ll unpack the impact of ingrained beliefs and past experiences on your relationship patterns, as well as the transformative power of self-a…
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How Balancing Masculine And Feminine Energy Can Break Toxic Patterns And Attract Healthy, Loving Relationships
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43:35In this episode of The Femme Cast, we dive deep into the powerful dynamics of masculine and feminine energy, and how balancing these energies is essential for attracting and maintaining healthy, loving relationships. If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in toxic patterns, drawn to emotionally unavailable partners, or unsure why your relationships ar…
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Navigating Uncertainty And Surrendering Control In Love And Life | Lessons From My Dark Night Of The Soul
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42:16What if the hardest, most painful moments of your life were actually working for you? Let’s get real—life has a way of throwing curveballs, and sometimes, they hit harder than we ever imagined. In this episode of The Femme Cast, I’m sharing the raw, unfiltered truth about a year that pushed me to my breaking point. From navigating the overwhelming …
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AI Generated Boyfriends And Bot Boys | Has It Really Come To This
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29:50I’m kicking off a brand-new series on The Femme Cast: Unhinged, Unplugged and Unfiltered, where I share my unfiltered thoughts on all things that need a reality check. Consider yourself warned! In this first episode of the series, I’m diving into the trend of AI boyfriends. Yep, virtual partners are a thing now, and I’m so not okay with it. We’ve r…
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7 Signs He's Emotionally Unavailable (That You Might Be Ignoring)
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43:27Are you constantly attracting emotionally unavailable men? In this episode of The Femme Cast, I’ll share my personal journey of realizing I was in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable man and how that led to a profound self-discovery. I’ll walk you through the signs of emotional unavailability that you might be ignoring, the internal stru…
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The 6 Hidden Lies Keeping You Stuck With Emotionally Unavailable Partners
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51:41In this episode of The Femme Cast, I dive deep into the 6 hidden lies that are keeping you stuck in relationships with emotionally unavailable partners. I’ll share my personal story of how these self-deceptions trapped me in unhealthy patterns, and the steps I took to break free from these patterns. This is for you if You keep finding yourself in r…
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Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men | The Deep Truths I Had To Face
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51:16Ever wondered why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners? In this episode of The Femme Cast I share some of my deep personal truths behind this pattern as I experienced it, and how confronting your own emotional unavailability can lead to profound transformation. This is for you if: You feel stuck in a pattern of attracting emotionall…
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Breaking Free | Why Letting Go Of A Narcissistic Relationship Is So Hard (And Why You Don't Need To Forgive Your Abuser)
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42:03Are you struggling to move on from a narcissistic relationship, even though you know deep down that you don't want them back? Do they still occupy your thoughts, influencing your decisions long after they're gone? In this episode of The Femme Cast, I dive deep into why breaking free from a narcissist isn't as simple as just "getting over it." I'll …
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The 5 Stages Of Narcissistic Abuse | How I Experienced Each Stage
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39:35In this powerful episode of The Femme Cast, I reveal the 5 distinct stages of narcissistic abuse, sharing my personal journey to illuminate the signs and dynamics of each phase. If you’re trying to understand narcissistic relationships or heal from narcissistic abuse, this episode is for you. We’ll explore: Idealization – The honeymoon phase where …
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10 Signs He Was A Narcissist | Many Of Which Fooled Me Into Thinking He Was “The One”
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1:00:27Have you ever been swept off your feet by someone who seemed perfect at first, only to realize later they were a narcissist? In this revealing episode of The Femme Cast, I dive deep into the subtle yet dangerous signs of narcissistic behavior, many of which unfortunately can be mistaken for true love. Drawing from my own harrowing experience, I’ll …
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Navigating Narcissistic Abuse | My Journey To Healing, Personal Empowerment And Bringing Myself Back To Life
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50:09Do you ever find yourself questioning your reality? Are you feeling controlled and manipulated in your relationship and suspecting you might be involved with a narcissist? If so, join me on The Femme Cast as I share my deeply personal journey through the intricate world of narcissistic abuse. This episode serves as a guiding light for anyone naviga…
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Feeling Unwanted And Unlovable | How Years Of Rejection, Neglect And Infidelity In My Relationships Devastated My Confidence And Self-Worth
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46:46Have you ever felt completely unwanted and unlovable after (or even during) a painful relationship? I have. And in this raw and relatable episode of The Femme Cast, I share my personal journey through years of rejection, neglect, and infidelity. These experiences wreaked havoc on my confidence and self-worth, setting me on a very painful path of ve…
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Taking Out The Trash | How Taking Responsibility For Past Traumas Can Transform Your Relationships
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33:59What if your past traumas are secretly sabotaging your current relationships? Join me on The Femme Cast as I walk you through my raw and candid journey of taking responsibility for my actions and emotions, starting from the days when my insecurities and anxious attachment style wreaked havoc on my relationships. By metaphorically and physically "ta…
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The Red Flags I Ignored | How The Things I Ignored In The Beginning Were The Reason I Left In The End
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41:52Ever brushed off those nagging feelings in a new relationship, thinking, "It's probably not a big deal"? Think again! In this episode of The Femme Cast, we dive deep into the consequences of ignoring red flags early on. I’m spilling the tea on my own experience with turning a blind eye to warning signs. And spoiler alert—it didn’t end well. Join us…
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