Manage episode 471835271 series 3402504
Ghosting can feel like a punch to the gut—leaving you questioning what went wrong and spiraling into self-doubt. But here’s the thing: your energy is too valuable to waste on someone who can't communicate with respect. In this episode of The Femme Cast, I challenge the common advice to "play it cool" when a ghoster comes crawling back. True empowerment isn't about acting unaffected—it's about recognizing your worth and not engaging with someone who’s emotionally immature.
We'll discuss:
- Ghosting often triggers a spiral of self-doubt and questioning what you did wrong
- How influencers suggest playing it cool when a ghoster returns, but this approach misses the mark
- True high-value behavior means not investing energy in someone who has shown disrespect
- Refusing to engage with someone who ghosted you isn't about what they think—it's about valuing your energy
- The person who's right for you would communicate honestly even if it's uncomfortable
- Moving through the discomfort of being ghosted eventually leads to genuine unbothered confidence
- Focus on knowing what you deserve rather than trying to change how others treat you
I share how I’ve navigated being ghosted countless times, what I’ve learned, and why the right person for you would never disappear without explanation. Tune in for a no-BS approach to protecting your energy, reclaiming your worth, and setting boundaries that honor your self-love. Remember: If someone ghosts you, it says more about them than it does about you. Don't chase validation—your next relationship will honor you from the start.
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Chapters
1. How to Handle Ghosting Without Losing Your Self-Worth (The Truth About Being Truly Unbothered vs. Just Pretending) (00:00:00)
2. Disagreeing with influencer advice (00:01:02)
3. The ghosting experience explained (00:02:07)
4. Common mistakes when ghosted (00:04:30)
5. The unbothered approach dilemma (00:06:57)
6. True high-value response to ghosting (00:10:45)
7. Breaking ghosting patterns for good (00:14:39)
8. Finding your true partner (00:17:59)
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