Welcome to "Calm Your Caveman" – the podcast that gives you the tools for anxiety mastery. I'm Dr. Adriana Jarvis Twitchell, and my doctoral degree in anxiety management strategies qualifies me to guide you on this journey. I've walked the path from chronic anxiety to security, and I'm here to help you do the same. In this podcast, you'll find control through understanding how emotions are generated and learn effective anxiety mastery strategies for every circumstance. By tuning in, you’ll a ...
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When You Can't Fix It: Four Ways to Calm Anxiety About Adult Children
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19:10Adult kids = adult worries. If you’ve been stuck in an anxiety loop, today’s episode is your lifeline. What You'll Learn: •Why parenting adult children can trigger more anxiety than other stages •Four mindset shifts to focus on when worry strikes •A simple writing exercise to reframe parental anxiety •How to trust your children’s journey—even when …
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When Giving Backfires: Healing the Anxiety of Overgiving
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27:42This episode starts with a conversation with my mom, who has spent a lifetime quietly serving others and finding real joy in it. But for me, giving didn’t always bring peace — it often brought guilt, pressure, and anxiety. If service is supposed to make us happier, why can it sometimes feel so heavy? I open up about my own dysfunctional relationshi…
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Negative Visualization for Better Well-being
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19:36Learn how the strategy of negative visualization can help regulate negative emotions like anxiety and enhance appreciation for positive events. From childhood memories to life-threatening experiences, discover how visualizing worse outcomes can make current challenges more manageable and appreciations more profound. Join Dr. Twitchell as she explor…
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Join Dr. Twitchell in this episode as she shares personal experiences with imposter syndrome and offers insights on transforming stress responses to enhance performance. By changing perceptions of demands and focusing on attainable goals, she illustrates how to manage imposter syndrome and thrive under pressure. 00:30 Introduction and Overview 01:1…
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Dr. Twitchell delves into the complex topic of jealousy, a common source of anxiety for many. She discusses practical strategies she has used to process and move beyond jealous feelings, including therapeutic approaches, cognitive exercises, and proactive steps to address underlying fears. She explores the evolutionary basis of jealousy, its impact…
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Join Dr. Twitchell as she explores the surprising benefits of storytelling in managing anxiety. She delves into how narrating daily experiences helps process emotions, magnify positive experiences, and provide meaning to life’s challenges. This episode underscores the power of storytelling in creating order from chaos, improving well-being, and fos…
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When the Sky is Falling (What to Do) With Don Jarvis
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26:44In this episode of Calm Your Caveman, Dr. Twitchell discusses how to cope when life feels overwhelming and the sky seems like it's falling. She shares personal experiences, including a story about a severe ocean threat to their home in Brazil, to emphasize how hyperfocus on an immediate problem can be beneficial. However, she also addresses what to…
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In this episode of 'Calm Your Caveman,' Dr. Twitchell delves into the intersection between religion and anxiety. The discussion highlights both the misuse of religion and the adaptive use of religious technologies, including reductions in loneliness, depression, and anxiety. Dr. Twitchell also shares personal anecdotes, illustrating how religious c…
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Cold Water Therapy for Anxiety and Resilience
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23:00Understand the science behind the impressive effects of cold exposure on body and mind, and get practical tips for incorporating this therapy into daily life for handling stress and enhancing performance. Hear Dr. Twitchell’s journey with cold water therapy for managing anxiety. Learn about her initial resistance, gradual easing into the practice, …
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Beat Anxiety with Simple Breathing Tactics
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27:10Hear Dr. Twitchell’s personal experiences with the effectiveness of breathing exercises for managing anxiety. Learn about specific methods such as Stasis breathing and the Wim Hof breathing protocol, and their physical and emotional benefits, along with the benefits of nasal breathing and the impact of exhalation length. Get practical tips for inco…
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The Art of Distress Tolerance: Navigating Life’s Unchangeables
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32:20Join Dr. Twitchell to learn about the importance of increasing distress tolerance for managing anxiety and negative emotions. This episode examines how resisting anxiety amplifies it and explores methods to accept negative emotions like anger, sadness, and fear by viewing them as temporary and necessary aspects of life. Dr. Twitchell shares persona…
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Sweating Out the Stress: How Exercise Tames Anxiety
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21:41Learn about the numerous advantages exercise offers for anxiety management, backed by decades of research. Dr. Twitchell elucidates six key reasons, including distraction, reduced muscle tension, and altered brain chemistry, that make exercise an effective anxiety management tool. Join Dr. Twitchell as she shares the challenges she faced in establi…
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Buffer Against Stress With a Sense of Meaning
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30:05Don't miss this effective strategy for anxiety management: adopting a perspective that challenges are opportunities for personal growth. Adriana shares her personal journey of learning to see meaning in extended illness. She explains the scientific research supporting this approach, detailing how finding a sense of macro meaning can shift our respo…
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Loosen Anxiety's Grip With Gratitude Science
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30:35In this episode, Dr. Twitchell discusses a powerful tool for managing anxiety in both the short and long term—gratitude. Sharing personal experiences of long COVID, Dr. Twitchell explains how a daily gratitude practice helped alleviate anxiety and improve overall well-being. Drawing from scientific research and personal anecdotes, the episode highl…
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Talk Yourself Down: Real-World Tips for Calming Self-Talk
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13:48Learn practical methods for applying the technique of self-talk in various situations, from quick interventions during the day to nighttime anxiety management. Dr. Twitchell shares personal examples and guides on thinking, speaking, and writing to oneself in the third person to regulate emotions, providing a comprehensive framework to approach anxi…
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Climb Out of the Mud Puddle of Your Emotions
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18:55This episode explains how to observe rather than be overwhelmed by your feelings. It also highlights the power of speaking to yourself in the third person to turn down emotional intensity, manage anxiety and improve performance under stress. Practical exercises for implementing these techniques are provided to help listeners climb out of the emotio…
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Embrace Your Anxiety: From Avoidance to Mastery
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26:23In this episode, Dr. Twitchell discusses the important strategy of approaching anxiety instead of avoiding it. Highlighting insights from the book 'The Upside of Your Dark Side,' Dr. Twitchell explains how modern comfort has increased our sensitivity to discomfort, and how avoidance can amplify anxiety. She proposes a three-step strategy to approac…
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In this episode, Dr. Twitchell discusses the intricacies of goal setting and its relationship with anxiety. Drawing upon Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi's flow theory, Dr. Twitchell explores how creating the right types of goals can help achieve a state of inner harmony and reduce anxiety. She emphasizes the importance of goals that enhance autonomy and cr…
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Optimize Your Future With the Challenge Mindset
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19:00Join Dr. Twitchell in this New Year's episode as she discusses the importance of optimism and a challenge mindset in predicting and coping with future stressors. Dr. Twitchell explains how our appraisals and predictions shape our emotional and physiological responses, as well as our ability to solve problems and collaborate with others. Learn about…
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Beyond Fear: Celebrating the Healing Power of Awe
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12:40Join Dr. Twitchell in this special Christmas episode of 'Calm Your Caveman' to explore the profound impact of awe on our mental and physical well-being. Learn about Professor Dacher Keltner's insights on the psychological need for awe, its various benefits such as reduced anxiety and depression, and its ability to expand our circle of care. Discove…
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Practical Tips for Mastering the Dopamine Dance
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29:28In this episode, Dr. Twitchell dives into practical ways to manage your dopamine budget to help regulate emotions and combat anxiety. Building on last week's discussion about the dopamine system, Dr. Twitchell shares personal experiences of post-trip and post-accomplishment lows, illustrating how understanding and anticipating dopamine fluctuations…
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Manage Your Dopamine Budget for Anxiety Relief
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37:25In this episode of Calm Your Caveman, Dr. Twitchell delves into the crucial topic of managing your dopamine budget for effective anxiety management. Drawing on insights from three experts—psychiatrists Daniel Z. Lieberman and Dr. Anna Lemke, and neurobiologist Andrew Huberman—Dr. Twitchell explores the role of dopamine in pleasure, motivation, and …
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In this episode, the focus is on understanding and managing body image anxiety. The discussion delves into common misconceptions and ineffective methods for addressing body anxiety, such as cosmetic surgery and weight loss. The episode emphasizes the importance of changing our mental relationship with body image rather than altering physical appear…
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Cultivating Mindfulness: Simple Steps to Soothe Anxiety
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31:17In this episode, we delve into the profound effects of mindfulness meditation on anxiety and explore practical ways to incorporate it into your daily life. Dr. Twitchell discusses the scientific backing of mindfulness and its benefits, emphasizing the importance of practice for achieving mastery. Discover how starting with tiny, manageable habits c…
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Harmonize Your Anxiety: The Power of Music Listening
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28:35In this episode of Calm Your Caveman, we dive into the therapeutic power of music as a tool for anxiety management. Join us as we explore the science behind why music can be so effective in soothing anxious minds and how you can incorporate it into your daily routine to foster calm and resilience. We'll break down the emotion generation process mod…
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In this episode, we explore the pervasive issue of living in a constant state of high alert and its impact on our anxiety levels. Drawing insights from Alan Gordon's book "The Way Out," we discuss how modern life's constant bombardment of notifications and alerts keeps us perpetually stressed. By examining statistics from the Gallup 2019 Global Emo…
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Dr. Christopher Minson on Nature Therapy: Anxiety Relief in the Great Outdoors
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43:23In this episode, Dr. Christopher Minson, a renowned human physiologist and co-founder of NatureQuant, delves into the significant mental and physical health benefits of spending time in nature. Dr. Minson discusses the physiological responses to natural environments and the evidence supporting nature's positive impact on reducing stress, anxiety, a…
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Arrange Your Living Space for Minimum Anxiety
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29:19In this episode, we explore the strategy of arranging and exercising control over your physical environment as a method to minimize anxiety. The discussion includes a deep dive into how modifying your living space can influence your emotional responses indirectly by affecting the appraisal processes. Key points covered include the benefits of proac…
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In this episode of 'Calm Your Caveman,' Dr. Twitchell discusses the concept of managing your energy budget to alleviate anxiety. She emphasizes this is a situational strategy with indirect influence on anxiety regulation. The limits of situational strategies are discussed, given that people are notoriously bad at predicting their future emotional s…
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Know Your Context: Foundational Anxiety Management Strategies (Part III)
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24:54In this episode, Dr. Twitchell discusses the second foundational strategy for anxiety mastery, which is understanding and knowing your context. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing different levels of emotional distress and matching appropriate strategies to those levels. The episode explores how high cognitive load strategies can be practi…
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Ana Regina Cardoso Models Anxiety Management Through Meaningful Living
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24:50In this episode, we move from theory to practice. Where recent episodes focused on the theory of finding your "why," this episode explores application: an interview with Ana Regina Cardoso is presented as a form of modeling, offering listeners a concrete example of how “finding your why” can be applied in real life. She shares her experiences of ca…
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Dr. Thomas Nielsen Part II: Embracing Self-Compassion for a Meaningful Life
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38:39In the second part of our enlightening conversation with Dr. Thomas W. Nielsen, we delve deeper into the concept of meaningful happiness. Dr. Nielsen shares profound insights on the practical application of self-care principles, encapsulated in the acronym "SELF CARE AIMS." This episode explores the importance of balancing self-care and compassion …
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Dr. Thomas Nielsen Part I: Finding the Keys to Meaningful Happiness
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27:59In this special two-part series, we delve into the intricate relationship between meaning and happiness with Dr. Thomas W. Nielsen, an associate professor at the University of Canberra and an expert in wellbeing and values education. In Part I, Dr. Nielsen explores the essential elements that contribute to meaningful happiness, challenging the comm…
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Find Your Why Continued: Foundational Anxiety Management Strategies (Part II)
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33:04In this episode of Calm Your Caveman, Dr. Twitchell deepens the conversation on finding your purpose as a foundational strategy for mastering anxiety. Building upon the previous discussion, this episode emphasizes the power of a clear 'why' to navigate complex emotional events and conflicting inner valuations. Dr. Twitchell explores how a defined p…
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Find Your Why: Foundational Anxiety Management Strategies (Part I)
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30:36In this episode of Calm Your Caveman, the focus shifts from anxiety concepts to introducing foundational strategies for managing anxiety, specifically 'Finding Your Why.' Dr. Twitchell reviews the emotion generation process and the four families of regulation strategies, emphasizing the importance of choosing suitable strategies based on personal c…
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Emotion Regulation Secrets: Anxiety Master Key Concepts Part III
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18:30In this episode of the Anxiety Master Key Concepts, we delve into Dr. James J. Gross's renowned process model of emotion regulation. We explore the intricacies of how emotions are generated and regulated, emphasizing the importance of influencing emotions by intervening at key points in the cycle: situation, perception, appraisal, and response. The…
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Is Stress Good or Bad For You? Anxiety Master Key Concepts Part II
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29:31In this episode of Calm Your Caveman, the discussion picks up from previous sessions on anxiety master key concepts focusing on the appraisal theory as a tool for regulating emotions. Dr. Twitchell explains how appraisals, our brain's interpretations of situations, determine whether emotions are helpful or harmful by aligning with our goals. The ep…
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Emotions Unlocked: Anxiety Master Key Concepts Part I
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27:28In this episode of "Calm Your Caveman," Dr. Adriana Jarvis Twitchell delves into the appraisal theory of emotion, emphasizing its role in understanding 1) what emotions we should regulate and 2) how regulation is done (the basic principles behind the regulation process). The first question, about knowing which emotions to regulate, or knowing when …
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In this episode, we discusses the concept of an "anxiety master key," a foundational tool for effective anxiety management. Dr. Twitchell outlines four essential questions that this master key addresses: 1. How to distinguish between adaptive (helpful) and maladaptive (harmful) anxiety. 2. How to cultivate helpful emotions and down-regulate harmful…
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In the first episode of "Calm Your Caveman," Dr. Adriana Jarvis Twitchell introduces herself and her qualifications in anxiety management. She shares her lifelong struggle with anxiety and how a chronic illness intensified her need to manage it. This led her to focus her doctoral research on anxiety management strategies. Dr. Twitchell introduces t…
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